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15 Things That No Longer Matter Once You Start College

It doesn't matter whether you were the most popular kid. You're just one of the many students at your new school.

Paul Shen

Sep 10, 2018

Bowling Green State University

15 Things That No Longer Matter Once You Start College

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Going from high school to college is one massive step. Too often, there are people who still try to relive their glory days from high school by bringing that with them to college. Let me tell you: You're not in high school anymore. This is college. This is a higher level. It's time to elevate your game and leave high school behind. Because high school is officially in the past.

Here are 15 things that no longer matter once you start college.

1. Your high school grade point average

If you were the valedictorian at your high school, good for you. It just doesn't guarantee that you'll get the same grades in college. It's called a learning curve for a reason. Also, your grades showed that you put in the required effort to get to college.

2. If you were the quarterback of the football team

Let's be real here, only so many people get to play college athletics.

3. Who your prom date was/if you were the prom king or queen

If you went to prom in high school, you probably had the time of your life at that time. But guess what, college will be better than your high school prom.

4. Your high school personality

You can choose to be that same kind of personality, or you can choose to explore who you think you can be.

5. If you were a nerd

The thing is, it's perfectly OK to be a nerd. In fact, you need to be one in college since that's why you pick a major.

6. Where you came from

The reason why this doesn't matter is because you belong at the university you go to, and you deserve to feel loved and appreciated regardless.

7. If you went to prom

Some people don't go to their high school prom (like me), and that's okay. I'm happy even though I didn't go.

8. How many people liked you or disliked you

Most of the people you went to high school with aren't following your steps to college. So let them go and move on with your life.

9. How much you like to party

The thing is, nobody really cares. You're at college to get an education.

10. The number of people you've had sex with

It's just a number.

11. If you were the best-looking girl at the school

You'll run into other beautiful girls at college, but you knew how beautiful you are before coming to college, so why does that have to change once you see another bombshell (or handful of bombshells) at college? Y'all are beautiful the way you are and don't need to put yourselves down when others call you beautiful.

12. The time it took for you to finish high school

High school is typically four years, but under certain circumstances, some people take shorter or longer. What really matters though, is that you are onto college and taking the next step of your life towards accomplishing your dreams.

13. Whether or not you had work experience before college

College is the opportunity to make your experience, so don't be afraid to make that happen. If you didn't have work experience before college, that's OK. You choose what to do with your time outside of classes.

14. What your religious beliefs were

You'll get to explore them during your college years.

15. What your political beliefs were

You're learning about who you are and what you stand for.

The thing is, nobody cares who you went to prom with because you're making new friends as part of your college experience. If you were prom queen or king, that doesn't matter. It doesn't guarantee that you'll be the queen or king of your college class. Nobody cares about what your political or religious beliefs were during high school because those are subject to change. Your past is worth opening up about, but you are at college for a reason, and you don't have to dwell on the past anymore because you've overcome a hurdle that many people never clear. You might be one of the bunch now, but you deserve to be loved and respected at your college and nobody can make you feel negative about yourself without your permission.

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15 Things That No Longer Matter Once You Start College

It doesn't matter whether you were the most popular kid. You're just one of the many students at your new school.

In This Article:

1. Your high school grade point average

2. If you were the quarterback of the football team

3. Who your prom date was/if you were the prom king or queen

4. Your high school personality

5. If you were a nerd

6. Where you came from

7. If you went to prom

8. How many people liked you or disliked you

9. How much you like to party

10. The number of people you've had sex with

11. If you were the best-looking girl at the school

12. The time it took for you to finish high school

13. Whether or not you had work experience before college

14. What your religious beliefs were

15. What your political beliefs were

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1. Me after every class

2. If you really care about your grades

3. When you get a new homework assignment

4. When people ask what you're going to do after college

5. When you see people who don't study and get good grades

6. We're all broke here

7. FREE FOOD IS FREE FOOD!

8. When it seems like everyone in class is smart - EXCEPT THE PEOPLE IN YOUR GROUP PROJECT!!

Other than knowledge and all those important things

How to take stairs.

Caffeine is your friend.

How to study.

Finding free food.

How to take a nap anywhere.

How to appreciate sleep.

How to procrastinate productively.

Surprise: This is not on the syllabus

1. As a freshman, one does get to be called “freshman” by upperclassmen when they walk to parties in a mob of people.

2. Some of the best stories happen after 2 a.m.

3. Upperclassmen live for meal swipes from freshman because they are poor and need free food.

4. People are struggling just as much as you are so you're not alone.

5. You will never take privacy or personal space for granted ever again.

6. You are not the only one who has slept on the community bathroom floor after a night out.

7. Skipping class for Netflix is a valid excuse.

8. It’s totally acceptable to bring a pot of coffee, a sleeping bag and a pillow to the library.

9. Having class with a friend is the best because you can trade off days on who goes to class.

10. When you are a senior, you take the easiest classes to boost your GPA.

11. How to pull an all-nighter.

12. How to handle drunk people.

13. The drunk you does not look out for sober you about 90 percent of the time.

14. How to deal with a hangover.

15. How to interact with people very different from you.

16. The perfect amount to procrastinate on every assignment.

17. How to pass a class without paying for the textbook that was "required."

18. How to calculate your grades to see what you need on every test in order to maintain a passing grade.

19. How to hook-up with someone without getting emotions involved (but we all know that doesn’t happen).

20. How to handle your roommate when you want to strangle them.

21. That you miss your parent’s every day.

22. How to get into a bar when you aren’t 21.

23. How to BS on assignments, out loud and on your resume.

24. That theme parties are the greatest.

25. How to find free events that have free food.

26. That when there are puppies on campus it will be the greatest day of your life.

27. Alarms are necessary and you must set like seven of them in order to wake up in time for class.

28. Greek parties are exactly how they are in movies.

29. Care packages are treated like Christmas presents.

30. The friends you meet in college will become your bridesmaids and groomsmen.

31. That printers only break when you need them the most.

32. Cereal, ramen noodles, Easy Mac and microwavable pancakes can be used for breakfast, lunch and dinner.

33. That classes before 8 a.m. should be illegal.

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