Helpful vs. harmful social media use | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Lifestyle

Drawing The Line Between Social Media User And Social Media Abuser

Go ahead, Insta-stalk your boyfriends ex-girlfriend. But everything may not be as it seems...

54
Drawing The Line Between Social Media User And Social Media Abuser
https://unsplash.com/photos/BjhUu6BpUZA

It's time to talk about a critical part of the social media culture that we can all feel free to admit we are a part of, stalking.

Okay- that makes it sound creepy. But we're all guilty of it despite its eerie connotation. You click on the profile of the friend of a friend tagged on Instagram and before you know it, you know every place they've vacationed in the last year and the names of all their siblings and their significant others.

Not creepy, right?

It seems like it but it's the complete norm of our social society now. We know about people's lives before we even meet them and that's IF we ever meet them.

We get deep into the lives of Instagram famous people that we will most likely never meet. But this is where the question arises- do we know them or do we only think we do?

We portray ourselves on social media as the person that we want people to think we are.

Think about it- when you take photos, you post the one that you look the best in, right? You post the Snapchat story that makes it look like you and your friends are having the most fun, right?

When you and your significant other are fighting, you're not going to post about it. You're going to post the happy, fun, in-love moments because that's what people want to see, right?

That's where social media can get tricky. The friend of a friend that you have Instagram-stalked the hell out of doesn't actually have that perfect life that you think they do. It's all about the perspective one wants to portray about their life.

Social media is a huge part of our day to day lives but we have to draw a line between the help that it can do and the harm that it can do.

Becoming so invested and obsessed with looking a certain way and living your life a certain way can have so many negative effects on your health and overall wellbeing.

So, is it okay to social media stalk and get a little too caught up in other people's lives? Of course. As long as there's a line that is drawn before it gets too obsessive, you're in the clear.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Featured

15 Mind-Bending Riddles

Hopefully they will make you laugh.

190117
 Ilistrated image of the planet and images of questions
StableDiffusion

I've been super busy lately with school work, studying, etc. Besides the fact that I do nothing but AP chemistry and AP economics, I constantly think of stupid questions that are almost impossible to answer. So, maybe you could answer them for me, and if not then we can both wonder what the answers to these 15 questions could be.

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

Most Epic Aurora Borealis Photos: October 2024

As if May wasn't enough, a truly spectacular Northern Lights show lit up the sky on Oct. 10, 2024

14839
stunning aurora borealis display over a forest of trees and lake
StableDiffusion

From sea to shining sea, the United States was uniquely positioned for an incredible Aurora Borealis display on Thursday, Oct. 10, 2024, going into Friday, Oct. 11.

It was the second time this year after an historic geomagnetic storm in May 2024. Those Northern Lights were visible in Europe and North America, just like this latest rendition.

Keep Reading...Show less
 silhouette of a woman on the beach at sunrise
StableDiffusion

Content warning: This article contains descriptions of suicide/suicidal thoughts.

When you are feeling down, please know that there are many reasons to keep living.

Keep Reading...Show less
Relationships

Power of Love Letters

I don't think I say it enough...

457811
Illistrated image of a letter with 2 red hearts
StableDiffusion

To My Loving Boyfriend,

  • Thank you for all that you do for me
  • Thank you for working through disagreements with me
  • Thank you for always supporting me
  • I appreciate you more than words can express
  • You have helped me grow and become a better person
  • I can't wait to see where life takes us next
  • I promise to cherish every moment with you
  • Thank you for being my best friend and confidante
  • I love you and everything you do

To start off, here's something I don't say nearly enough: thank you. Thank you, thank you, thank you from the bottom of my heart. You do so much for me that I can't even put into words how much I appreciate everything you do - and have done - for me over the course of our relationship so far. While every couple has their fair share of tiffs and disagreements, thank you for getting through all of them with me and making us a better couple at the other end. With any argument, we don't just throw in the towel and say we're done, but we work towards a solution that puts us in a greater place each day. Thank you for always working with me and never giving up on us.

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

11 Signs You Grew Up In Hauppauge, NY

Because no one ever really leaves.

26598
Map of Hauppauge, New York
Google

Ah, yes, good old Hauppauge. We are that town in the dead center of Long Island that barely anyone knows how to pronounce unless they're from the town itself or live in a nearby area. Hauppauge is home to people of all kinds. We always have new families joining the community but honestly, the majority of the town is filled with people who never leave (high school alumni) and elders who have raised their kids here. Around the town, there are some just some landmarks and places that only the people of Hauppauge will ever understand the importance or even the annoyance of.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments