I grew up with the mindset that I preferred to do things for myself than having to rely on someone else. Whether it came to group projects and I was the one who wanted to do most of the work so, I knew it was done or finishing a DIY project I saw online on my own.

It's because I trust myself and I know I can rely on myself. I enjoy doing things for myself. It's a confidence boost for me.

I also am the person who will run to my mother for just about anything. If I ever have a question about anything, you bet I will be calling her up to find an answer. I understand that it's okay to go to a parent for anything.

I have difficulties in relationships when the guy wants to do stuff for me, but I have a hard time of accepting that. Where he wants to get something for me or do anything that hinders my independence, I cringe at it. I've gotten better with accepting that, however. If I truly wanted to be an independent, I would stay alone. I understand that it's okay to let your significant other be there for you.

With being an independent, it means that sometimes I like to be alone than spend time with others. I enjoy eating a meal alone because it means I don't have to worry about talking to someone. I enjoy studying by myself rather than a group. I can't always be a hermit though. I do understand that there needs to be a balance.

I enjoy being an independent and being able to do things for myself. I do understand that others care about me and are wanting to assist in some way. The people in my life understand how I think and I believe that is helpful with moving forward in life. It's okay to be an independent, but it's also okay for someone to help you without them hindering you.

I am the type of person who wants someone to be there at times, but not necessarily need them there and that's okay.