I'm The Girl Who Never Got Homesick, But Saying Goodbye To My Mom When I Went To College Was Really Hard | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Sports

I'm The Girl Who Never Got Homesick, But Saying Goodbye To My Mom When I Went To College Was Really Hard

And that's okay.

26
I'm The Girl Who Never Got Homesick, But Saying Goodbye To My Mom When I Went To College Was Really Hard

I was was the kind of kid who never was attached at her mothers hip. I started going to over-night summer camp at the age of 8. I never cried when my parents left me with a babysitter. I was never the kid at sleepovers who had to call their parents to have them pick me up. By the time I got to high school, I was ready to take on the world. I went on an over seas trip to Japan at the age of 16. Without my parents.The 6,500 miles that separated me from home did not faze me at all. I loved it. At the age of 17 I went on a trip to Mexico without my parents. The trip was over 2 weeks and I was fine. I guess you could say I have always walked my own path. And for a long time, that was just fine by me. I liked being alone and independent. I liked making my own decisions about what to eat and what to buy and where to go. The idea of absolute freedom never frazzled me. Until it was time for me to go to college.

The morning I left for college I felt great. All my stuff was packed in our car, my mom bought donuts for my big breakfast send off, I said quick goodbyes to my room and all my favorite spots in my house, I said longer goodbyes to my 4 cats and the kids next door who I nanny for. The car ride there was good too. I was feeling excited. But the moment we pulled up to my hall, I felt like I was going to vomit. All of the things that I was excited about all of the sudden became very overwhelming to me. I quickly stood by my mother and attached myself at her hip, just like the child I never was. It was like I suddenly realized that maybe I really did need my mom. After a few hours of setting up my new home the time came to say goodbye. My mom sometimes calls me her scarecrow. This nickname is rooted in my deep love for The Wizard Of Oz, but it has a meaning. When Dorthy says her goodbyes to all of her friends from oz, she says goodbye to the scarecrow last and tells him " I think I'll miss you most of all." I am my moms first kid, and the scarecrow was Dorthy's first friend in Oz. My mom told me that I was her Scarecrow because I was the first one she met, and the hardest to say goodbye to. But in the moment when it was time to say goodbye I embodied the character of my beloved Dorthy, choosing my mom to hug last of all. She was the first one I met. And the hardest to say goodbye to. So maybe I really do need my mom. And after all of these years I realized that my mom is my scarecrow. And when it comes to goodbyes, she will always be the one I miss the most.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Student Life

A Few Thoughts Every College Freshman Has

The transition into adulthood is never easy

17973
Mays Island
Courtney Jones

Today I started my third week of college at Minnesota State Moorhead. I have survived welcome week, finding my classes on the first day, and being an awkward loner in the dining hall. Even though I have yet to be here for a month, I have already experienced many thoughts and problems that only a new college student can relate to.

Keep Reading...Show less
Students walking on a sunny college campus with trees and buildings.

"Make sure to get involved when you're in college!"

We've all heard some variation of this phrase, whether it came from parents, other family members, friends, RAs, or college-related articles. And, like many clichés, it's true for the most part. Getting involved during your college years can help you make friends, build your resume, and feel connected to your campus. However, these commitments can get stressful if you're dealing with personal issues, need to work, or aren't sure how to balance classes and everything else going on during the semester.

Keep Reading...Show less
Relationships

9 Reasons Why Friends Are Essential In College

College without friends is like peanut butter without jelly.

7654
Bridgaline Liberati and friends
Bridgaline Liberati

In college, one of the essential things to have is friends. Yes, textbooks, a laptop, and other school supplies are important but friends are essential. Friends are that support system everybody needs. The more friends you have the better the support system you have. But you also have someone to share experiences with. And don’t settle for just one or two friends because 8 out of 10 times they are busy and you are studying all alone. Or they have other friend groups that do not include you. Don’t settle for just one or two friends; make as many friends as you can. After the first couple of weeks of college, most friend groups are set and you may be without friends.

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

The Power of Dressing Up

Why it pays to leave the hoodie at home.

5606
sneakers and heels
Sister | Brother Style - Word Press

For a moment your world is spinning. The phone alarm has just scared you awake and you’re flooded by daunting thoughts of the day ahead. You have three assignments due and little time to work on them because of your job. You’re running late because you’ve hit snooze one to many times after yesterday’s long hours. You dizzily reach for a hoodie, craving its comfort, and rush for a speedy exit, praying you will have time to pick up coffee. Does this sound familiar?

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

11 Signs You Live At The Library As Told by 'Parks And Recreation'

A few signs that you may live in the library whether you'd like to admit it or not.

4868
brown wooden book shelves with books

Finals week is upon us. It is a magical time of year during which college students everywhere flock to the library in attempt to learn a semester's worth of knowledge in only a week. For some students, it's their first time in the library all semester, maybe ever. Others have slaved away many nights under the fluorescent lights, and are slightly annoyed to find their study space being invaded by amateurs. While these newbies wander aimlessly around the first floor, hopelessly trying to find a table, the OGs of the library are already on the third floor long tables deep into their studies. Here is a few signs that you may live in the library, whether you'd like to admit it or not.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments