Everyone wants to goof off. People want to have fun, be free, see the world and never be restrained. But the world seems smaller now. Blank edges are illustrated for us. It’s everywhere you go. Things amount to the same. Again and again, wherever we are we focus on problems. We never do anything about them. We pretend they don’t exist, that we are not miserable, that the world is a paradise. It can be but as of the moment, what we believe are just dreams, not yet translated into action out of some misplaced cowardice and sense of weakness as if silence can save you. Victims don’t act. It’s why there are victims. Letting people walk all over you won’t change them. It gives them an excuse to cheat, humiliate and take advantage. That’s the problem with compromise. Start being complacent, and before you realize it, there’s nothing left. No, not even some extra food. They tend to throw those away. “Nobody is starving” they said. “If no pay, no food.” Maybe I’m daft but the constant reminder of racism is beginning to take it’s toll on everyone. What society has created is a world paranoid of itself. It’s scared of its own shadow, no one dares lift the lid open. No one wants to speak. No one wants to be the devil’s advocate. There are a few souls but people don’t listen when truth is served. It’s too bitter. They prefer sweet, the kind which rot teeths and gives heart attacks, further proof people have a death wish they don’t want to confront. Our time alive is limited because to be immortal is to not feel how precious life is. But we search in vain for that Elixir of Life, the Philosopher’s Stone from ancient shamans, philosophers, alchemists, people who possess extraordinary gifts.We want answers fast. We don’t think. We watch crap and don’t care. We eat with no thought to nutrition. There are so few who seem to stand up and scream and protest and show, it’s not enough. It’s never enough. Then everyone starts blaming everyone else, listing faults, being annoying little turds with about as much to say about anything as a priest preaching sermons but don’t practice what he says. No one wants to shoulder the burden. Round up everyone and the only thing a mob will do is point and ridicule each other. Then the police steps in, guns a-blazing, like the shows they watch where killing someone by accident is funny but when someone kills police, it’s harassment of the highest order sanctioned from on-high by judges wearing ridiculous wigs. Then it’s genocide time on both fronts. And not a single one learns anything except violence is an easy solution. They then replicate it, escalate it until someone backs down and somehow blames their victims for the massacre. The entire internet screams. Voices top each other until hoarse. And nothing is resolved. Protests mount, fear strangles those in Ivory Towers, watching the world and noticing that everything seems to resemble little cockroaches and think nothing of it. Then depression sets in. Despair becomes a constant companion. Suffering seems the only way to live. And when people kill themselves people can’t understand. Analysts show statistics, politicians give promises, scientists research and assume. Each one concludes something different. Not one thought of sharing, collaborating or seeing connections, correlations, all leading to the fact that the system is flawed and in need of revision, much like the history swallowed by billions who still believe that white supremacy is the only world available and accept the fact like some hard, concrete proof they deserve to be slaves. And that the world has always been static and incapable of change. Mis-education has made a lot of problems. Propaganda after propaganda, telling us what to do, how to think. Don’t fight, instead do something else. Words become twisted, reversed, distorted and spread with as much understanding as a drunk kid who got alcohol because everyone says it’s cool. Everyone therefore gets the wrong idea. Then the behaviour gets enforced. Now beer has become a ritual as much as vodka has become the pinnacle of being masculine, alongside sexual conquests which rate the highest number of partners as the best man. It’s how men are conditioned to behave as if the world owed them a lot of things. Rare are the ones who think things through. Such brave souls are labeled and decried as strange as if to follow stereotypes is the height of social identity. This is of course done so people won’t get ideas. Creativity expands minds and challenges structures. No government would want that. Rebels don’t fit with their concepts of simplistic good and evil. And the fear drives them to act rushly without thinking. Now the eyes of the majority are haunting them. There’s no place to hide anymore. The past is coming back to bite, to tear, to consume those who have turned a blind eye for so long. Hundreds of years did people of color suffer in the dark alongside a few allies who have accepted the unfair treatment and instead fought those who continue spreading the wrong things. It’s as if the revolution slept for decades until the internet came along. And suddenly, the disenfranchised started getting the power of information. What was once controlled by the upper classes, is now democratized. Blogs, websites, forums. The voices of millions shape the digital landscape. The tool has become honed as a way of correcting wrongs, of exacting justice, of spreading ideas, of showing a better, more beautiful way of seeing. It can also be a bit juvenile, fearful, confused, chaotic in all the wrong ways. But communication enables people to come together and decide and maybe, take action. Sooner or later, if things don’t change soon, people won’t stand by any longer. It’s been happening for a long time. But now that there are so many options to share, to criticize and to show, the truth is becoming heard. The lies prove ineffective and silence is no longer an option. When one voice dies, millions take their place. Riots, protests, demands. These things will only increase. The more people understand, the more they will rage and act and scream until changes are made. And we won’t stop. It will continue, from now until eternity, united by the cries of freedom and justice. Dissent, disobedience, deviance. We haven’t begun to fight. No one, not even those who are sure they’re untouchable, can hide. All they will be doing is prolonging the agony of all. Not everyone, however, will want to fight, to be involved. They’re rather go online, rant, and waste time. But that’s what we want. Then we complain, wait then wonder how things became this bad. No one paid attention. It’s easy to dream, to dismiss and to pretend but where’s the value in that? Blind is blind. And those who sit and accept with quiet frustration, only spread more of the unfairness we all taste. Then again, why worry until it’s too late? It’s going to be ironic how everything ends if people don’t do anything. It’s as if only when people are dead do all unite but in silence. Let’s hope heaven is real, even though it will probably be lame there since paradise offers no excitement, no risks, no music, no meaning and no wonder. It’s order without chaos, safety over mystery and chance. But people change. And there’s no such thing as too late. To be late is to be dead. To live is to fight, to survive, to struggle. And that’s just the way it is.
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11 Signs You've Found The Ultimate Friend Group
They are the types of friends you have for life.
If I have learned one thing in my lifetime, it is that friends are a privilege. No one is required to give you their company and yet there is some sort of shared connection that keeps you together. And from that friendship, you may even find yourself lucky enough to have a few more friends, thus forming a group. Here are just a few signs that prove your current friend group is the ultimate friend group.
1. When you see each other after a hiatus it is like no time has passed.
Regardless of what you may have gone through, nothing can change the banter and personal communication you and your friends share. Nothing feels awkward or forced because you are having too much fun catching up!
2. You plan your outings around each other's schedules.
Your friend's work schedules or class schedules are memorized like the back of your hand. They are your priority, and you will do anything you can to get them to join you on adventures when it is convenient to do so.
3. You say 'I love you' on the phone.
Yes, you may say it in real life too, but saying it after a phone call means it has become a customary for you to validate your appreciate for one other. Like a significant other or family member, you feel the desire to express your love at the end of a conversation.
4. Nothing is boring when you are together.
No matter what you do together, you always have a good time. Why? Because your friends' company is all you need. With the right people, you can make any situation memorable.
5. You share weird inside jokes no one else understands.
And you would like to keep it that way. If you are anything like my friend group, we share a strange family dynamic that has lasted as a running joke forever. No matter what it is, your inside jokes and sly smirks will keep the spirits up for ages.
6. You plan to hang out for a couple hours but end up together the entire day.
So now you just expect it and prepare for a 24-hour long get-together. Naps are often a part of the agenda.
7. The hugs say a thousand words.
Perhaps you do it a little too much, but the hugs you share are always meaningful and comforting. Gotta love those group hugs especially!
8. You go on spontaneous adventures together.
It is where your favorite memories come from. Even though you might not be able to do them as much as you would like, you are always down for a trip, big or small, with the group.
9. You consider each other family.
Because you consider each other family, you treat each other like family. Constant love, constant support, and a tremendous amount of meals spent together.
10. They make you a better person.
It is not a special friend group unless you learn from one another. You had to be selective when choosing your friends and when you did, you felt like they could teach you a thing or two. Their actions influence who you are and you could not be more thankful.
11. You can't imagine life without them.
The very thought scares you and sends your heart racing. Thankfully, the ultimate friend group is right there with you so you never have to second-guess their loyalty. Instead, you can bask in the glory that is your ultimate friend group. #squadgoals.
8 Things All Siblings Know Too Well
As told by Ross and Monica Geller.
When it comes to television, there’s very few sets of on-screen siblings that a lot of us can relate to. Only those who have grown up with siblings knows what it feels like to fight, prank, and love a sibling. Ross and Monica Geller were definitely overbearing and overshared some things through the series of "Friends," but they captured perfectly what real siblings feel in real life. Some of their antics were funny, some were a little weird but all of them are completely relatable to brothers and sisters everywhere.
You always have someone to tattle on.
If you’ve ever needed to get your parents to stop nagging on you, there was a sibling for that. You bickered back and forth trying to one-up each other, until suddenly all the cats were out of the bag.
You have an organized dance routine.
There was definitely a time in your lives when you and your sibling made a dance routine and put on a show for the rest of your family. Years later, you’re reminiscing about your childhood, and you find out you remember the routine perfectly.
You’ve fought for the family cup.
Sibling rivalries happen in every home, so it’s no surprise if you and your sibs compete against each other. Sometimes the winner cheats and sometimes the loser calls a rematch, so every year you play again to see who claims the family cup.
You have countless inside jokes.
Everything you and your sibs did when you were younger became a hilarious story when you grew up. No one will understand why saying just one word will put you and your siblings in a fit of laughter. All you can say is: "It's an inside joke between me and my siblings, you wouldn't understand."
You made your own insults.
Were there ever any words that you weren’t allowed to say when you were young? You had to come up with inventive ways to insult your sibs without being yelled at by your mom, so making a secret language or gesture was a thing.
You've seen each other at your worst.
But as a sibling, it's your job not to judge. You guide and support your sibling, just as they would for you. And maybe later down the road, you guys can laugh about it.
You know a little too much about your sibling.
Has there ever come a time when you and your sibling are having a conversation that’s a little too personal, but you think nothing of it? You may know some things about your sibling that you probably didn’t need to know, but hey, it’s your sibling.
You love each other no matter what.
You may bicker and fight with your sibling, and you’ll definitely be upset with them sometimes, but they are the most constant thing in your life. You and your siblings will always support and love each other.
College is a great place to meet people, especially through Greek life. If you look closely at sororities, you'll quickly see there are many different types of girls you will meet.
1. The Legacy.
Her sister was a member, her mom was a member, all of her aunts were members, and her grandma was a member. She has been waiting her whole life to wear these letters and cried hysterically on bid day. Although she can act entitled at times, you can bet she is one of the most enthusiastic sisters.
2. The Chic Sister.
She is always wearing the cutest outfits and you wonder where she finds all of her clothes. Her hair and makeup are always done perfectly and she always looks effortlessly ready for the runway.
3. The Fit Sister.
She is always working out whether she's at spin, going for a run, or at Pilates. She makes you feel so guilty about lying in bed binge-watching Netflix while eating wings.
4. The Party Girl.
She doesn't miss a bar night, frat party, or social. She lives to go out and double-fist. She must have the best hangover cure in the books to be able to bounce back every morning.
5. The Tinder Queen.
She doesn't just love boys. She lives, breathes, and dreams boys. She can't get enough and wants them all. She has guys in every frat on speed dial. Most importantly, she swipes more than she speaks because she's in it to win it.
6. The Overachiever.
She holds multiple chair positions, she gets perfect grades, she is super involved in the chapter, she is the best big, and you wonder when she has time to nap!
7. The Underachiever.
She never comes to chapter which explains why she never knows what's going on. She comes to events late, she doesn't know who she is paired with for Greek Week. She can basically go unseen for weeks.
8. The Mom.
She takes care of everyone in the sorority. If you're falling behind in class, are going through a rough break up, or just fought with your roommate, she's your go-to sister. She takes care of you when you're out, makes you food, and tells you how it is with honest advice, but gives you love when you need it the most.
9. The Freshman.
She is your stereotypical freshman in every way. She has your letters on everything and lives for the sorority. She wants to get involved and wants to get to know everyone. Despite her enthusiasm for the chapter, she is still a naive freshman and has had a few rough nights out, to say the least. She is painfully so freshman but you appreciate her drive
10. The Senior.
She doesn't care about anything and spends her days with dark sunglasses and a coffee in hand. She spends her last days of school drinking and freaking out about the real world so she doesn't have time for any chapter drama.
11. The Preppy Girl.
You can always find her dressed from head to toe in Lilly. She loves her Jack Rogers, T Burch, and Kate Spade. You wonder how she has time to look nice for class every day and she is always sporting pearls.
10 Reasons Why Life Is Better In The Summertime
Winter blues got you down? Summer is just around the corner!
Every kid in college and/or high school dreams of summer the moment they walk through the door on the first day back in September. It becomes harder and harder to focus in classes and while doing assignments as the days get closer. The winter has been lagging, the days are short and dark, and no one is quite themselves due to lack of energy and sunlight. Let's face it: life is ten times better in the summertime.
1. No school = no stress.
There are no essays to write, no books to read, and no deadlines to meet. The only worry in the world is keeping track of putting sunblock on.
2. Country music is more fun to listen to.
All true fans will listen to country music 365 days a year, but we all know that it's so much better in the summer when you can roll down the windows.
3. Your skin looks and feels better.
Even if you don't have the type of skin that tans, there is more color there than in the winter ... maybe. Freckles, tan lines, peeling burns and clear skin make for a happier camper. You'll forget all about the ghost version of yourself that was shedding dry skin like a snake over the winter.
4. Being barefoot 24/7 is an option.
Obviously wearing no shoes in the middle of a blizzard isn't acceptable. You know what is, though? Wearing no shoes in the summer ever because why not?
5. Ice cream is an acceptable snack.
For people like me who can't resist ice cream even on a 10 degree day, summer is a giant ice cream blessing. Not only does it taste like heaven, it's actually refreshing.
6. Minimal clothing is required.
Is there anything worse than having to put on layers in the wintertime only to sweat to death the minute you come back inside? No need for more than a tank top and shorts in the summertime.
7. Going to the beach daily isn't weird.
Now that it's hot, it's beach season. If you live near the ocean there is an excuse to drive there day or night, rain or shine. Staying there all day is an option for those who don't burn, and for those who do, you can always come back at night for a bonfire.
8. Cookouts.
Even when they lead to disaster, summertime cookouts are the best. Nothing completes a cookout more than watermelon and corn on the cob.
9. Night swimming.
Oh the thrill of jumping in freezing cold water in the middle of the night. Good thing the air becomes colder than the water, making the pool like a giant bathtub.
10. Spontaneous adventures.
Summertime gives you the freedom to wake up in the morning and decide to do something totally out of the blue that you've never done before. Hiking to a waterfall, rock climbing, going to a museum, or even road tripping are all great summer options.
Even if the heat isn't really your thing, it's undeniable to admit that life really is better in the summer. There's so much more free time, opportunity, excitement and sunshine. Only four months to go!
10 Things That Describe You and Your College Friends
The craziest, funniest, and most unforgettable college memories are impossible to create without an amazing group of friends.
1. You'll never run out of clothes when you have at least four closets to choose from.
2. You embrace and encourage each other’s horrible, yet remarkable dance moves.
3. You never turn down an opportunity for a cheat day or especially free food.
4. You keep each other’s priorities in check.
5. There is nothing but honest advice, multiple venting sessions, and absolutely no judgements.
6. You have too many pictures with each other in the same exact pose.
7. You don't just mess with one of us, you mess with all of us.
8. You know just how to get the party started.
9. You know what they say… “Good friends don't let you do stupid things alone."
10. You’ll always there for each other no matter what happens.