If I had a penny for everytime someone gave me a funny look because I have braces, I would be able to finally go on a mega shopping spree. I never really thought too much about having them while I was in high school, simply because it was so common, but when I found out that I would need to wear them for a little while in college, I immediately freaked out.
I already have a baby face, and I knew this would make me look even younger. However, I definitely was not expecting the negative attitudes that came along with having something as simple as metal on your teeth. I mean, probably a ton of people have had them at some point in their lives.
So, why is it such a problem that I do? I didn't really care as much until I received some very unnecessary, rude comments about them. It wasn't affecting this person in any way, shape, or form, but they felt the need to say something. And honestly, if you deem it necessary to comment on something temporary about me, you better get back to high school and learn a few things about respect.
Talking down on me for having braces says more about you than me.
No, I'm not a secret high school student.
I know I look about 15 years old, but I definitely am not. Mentioning this to me will not do you any better, or make you look any more amazing. In fact, it points out your own flaws and mirrors them for exactly what they are: insecurities. I'm still a good person, and I'm still beautiful in my own way.
I know that this is only temporary, and at the end, it'll be so worth it.
Knowing that there's an expiration date to this makes the journey that much more exciting. I've had braces since the end of my freshman year of high school, and I legit cannot imagine my life without them. My high school friends only know what I look like with them on, and have loved me regardless and made me feel my best at my lowest.
Although people enjoy putting their two cents in, it will all be worth it once I see the end result. I know that by the end of this, my smile will be flawless, and I can't wait to see all the pain, unwanted swollen gums, wearing of rubber bands and constant mouthwashes pay off.
