"Everyone is Different" is a saying we have all heard hundreds of times throughout our lives. Different personalities, different abilities, different perspectives; no human being is the same. To encourage an acceptance of our differences we are told this many times as we grow up. But what if it is not our differences that should be encouraged?
As a society we focus so much on how we are different, we forget the things that make us the same. Sometimes we even forget the biggest thing we have in common, that we are all human beings
We may look different, but underneath we are all the same. Whether you are short or tall, thick or thin, Black or White, it doesn't matter. Humans are family. The problem is, we don't treat each-other like it. Humans today tend to judge one another for superficial reasons such as, clothes, music, size, ethnicity, etc. We are all guilty of judging others even when we don't realize it. Why do we do this? Why do we judge each-other so much?
Once again we are forgetting the most important thing we all have in common, that we are human. We are forgetting that although we might not agree with everything about one-another, we have more similarities than differences.
How can we change?
Always know that it is important to accept our differences, but it is even more important to remember our similarities. Replace judgement with understanding.
Trying to put yourself in someone else's shoes is one of the greatest gifts you can give. Perspective is powerful. Everyone has a story, a struggle, and a side to them you might never know or understand, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't try. There is a reason every-one is the way they are and if we all keep that in mind, the world will be a better place. Although dysfunctional, Humans are a family and although neglected, Earth is our home, it is up to us to make it better.
"Despite everything, I believe that people are really good at heart." - Anne Frank
