Friendship. It's something we strive for as humans -- that human connection. That feeling that we are not alone in this world.

Making friends is more of a difficult process that we do not give enough credit for. I know for myself, making friends in college was initially extremely difficult for me. I am introverted when it comes to large groups, and the thought of putting myself out there at times frightens me especially in a brand new setting.

I also felt that I was in a sense "cheating" on the friends I had at home. Let me make one thing clear about old friendships- the ones that will be sustained over your life time are the friends that always pick up where you last left off. You do not need to be constantly talking to and filling in your friends on your life away from them. Rather, call or contact them when big and exciting stuff happens and save the small stuff for the new friends you have made.

It is important to keep in contact, don't get me wrong, but there is always a healthy balance. I always try to make plans with friends from home during the holidays, or just let them know when I am going to be home a certain weekend. Keeping in contact is so important!

The friendships I maintain on a weekly basis our the friendships that are 1. Close in radius or 2. Are part of my family- my brother and sister. When all else fails your family will always always be there for you to cheer you up or offer their support. Maintaining a positive relationship with each of your family members is key to fulfilling your basic needs:

Human connection.

To be loved.

So when starting a new school, job, or joining a sports team etc., the best advice I have to give you is to be yourself. Don't try to be someone you are not just to fit in. The right people will flock to you because they like you for you.