How It Feels To Be 20 | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Student Life

How It Feels To Be 20

"I think your twenties are the hardest part of life. I mean, everyone goes on about how hard it is to be a teenager, but actually I think it’s tougher to be in your 20s because you’re expected to be a grownup and expected to earn your own living and be successful and I think you feel like a kid still."- Nigel Cole

35
How It Feels To Be 20

Twenty. The year the word "teen" finally disappears from our age number. The year the word adult now officially defines us, whether you want it to or not. Twenty: a year of extreme responsibility, social pressure, and high expectations from our peers- all mixed together with mistakes and mishaps, successes and triumphs, and a whole spectrum of emotions.

We've hit that age where we are technically no longer teenagers, but in reality are still not quite adults who can consume alcohol legally yet. It is that transition phase where we are starting to become functioning members of society, but at the same time not really there yet. It has come to the point where we can manage to schedule our own job interviews and our LinkedIn profiles and resumes are finally coming together, but we still have to call our moms when we have a bad day or need to schedule a dentist appointment.

Yet, to be honest, being twenty years old feels old as hell. We simultaneously miss our childhood days, but are also ecstatic for our futures and what the years ahead will bring. We feel like time is moving too fast, and there are days when we wish we were seven years old again. Our bodies have pretty much taken to their full adult form, to the disliking of many or the rare liking of some. Our fashion and music preferences have changed dramatically, yet we still enjoy some Blink-182, The Backstreet Boys, or NSYNC from time to time. Our taste buds have adapted to craving coffee at any hour of the day, something we never thought possible when we were young. We find ourselves forgetting to call our parents as much, as the complete sense of independence has finally kicked in.

We have matured greatly in ways where we can accept the bad days for what they are, and learn to appreciate and cherish the good days. We have experienced failures in completely unfamiliar territories- not receiving a phone call back after an interview, having the work put in to prepare for an important exam just not quite be enough, or completely freaking out about plans for the upcoming summer. We never know what our next move will be. We live life just enduring the week- just counting down the days until the weekend, yet still enjoying every single exhilarating day of college life.

We still break down from time to time, and still take failures as the end of the world. But being twenty, we know there is so much life ahead of us because in reality, we are still so young. This is the age where we still compare ourselves to our peers, but use these comparisons in ways to benefit our own lives. We take the successes of others and use them to motivate ourselves to produce our own successes as well. We have finally stopped living completely in the moment, and have started thinking about tomorrow, next month, two years from now. Graduation. Life after college. What age 25 will be like. Marriage. Our own future families. We are finally grasping the importance of the concept of building connections and relationships that could benefit our future job opportunities. We have completely stopped reminiscing on high school days, and the images of life after college swarm our thoughts constantly. Being old enough to go to the bars. Having to present yourself professionally on a daily basis. Actually caring about our outer appearances. Thinking about significant others on more serious levels. The concepts of rent, taxes, mortgages- all somewhat unfamiliar, yet to our dismay, just right around the corner.

Twenty has brought us happiness in more ways than we ever thought imaginable. We finally feel comfortable in our own skin, and are starting to love who we see when we look in the mirror. Twenty is exciting, nerve-racking, emotion-filled, stressful, and some of the most difficult, yet worthwhile days of our lives. Being twenty is the age where it is time to step up- take hold of what we want in life and do everything in our power to pursue it at our best ability. We all must find a way to graduate college, get a job, and earn a solid income, all while maintaining our family life, social lives, and staying healthy overall. Us twenty year olds have a lot of on our plates, which we all ironically are so intrigued and motivated by.

This is an amazing year of life - a single year, 365 days of being twenty-years-old. This year is defined by the transition from being a teenager to the next decade of our twenties, as the first two decades of our lives are officially part of the past. The past two decades have shaped the people we are today, and we cannot be more grateful for the amazing 20 year olds we have all become.

Cheers to the past 20 years, and cheers to the next amazing years to come.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Featured

15 Mind-Bending Riddles

Hopefully they will make you laugh.

184346
 Ilistrated image of the planet and images of questions
StableDiffusion

I've been super busy lately with school work, studying, etc. Besides the fact that I do nothing but AP chemistry and AP economics, I constantly think of stupid questions that are almost impossible to answer. So, maybe you could answer them for me, and if not then we can both wonder what the answers to these 15 questions could be.

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

Most Epic Aurora Borealis Photos: October 2024

As if May wasn't enough, a truly spectacular Northern Lights show lit up the sky on Oct. 10, 2024

10802
stunning aurora borealis display over a forest of trees and lake
StableDiffusion

From sea to shining sea, the United States was uniquely positioned for an incredible Aurora Borealis display on Thursday, Oct. 10, 2024, going into Friday, Oct. 11.

It was the second time this year after an historic geomagnetic storm in May 2024. Those Northern Lights were visible in Europe and North America, just like this latest rendition.

Keep Reading...Show less
 silhouette of a woman on the beach at sunrise
StableDiffusion

Content warning: This article contains descriptions of suicide/suicidal thoughts.

When you are feeling down, please know that there are many reasons to keep living.

Keep Reading...Show less
Relationships

Power of Love Letters

I don't think I say it enough...

454966
Illistrated image of a letter with 2 red hearts
StableDiffusion

To My Loving Boyfriend,

  • Thank you for all that you do for me
  • Thank you for working through disagreements with me
  • Thank you for always supporting me
  • I appreciate you more than words can express
  • You have helped me grow and become a better person
  • I can't wait to see where life takes us next
  • I promise to cherish every moment with you
  • Thank you for being my best friend and confidante
  • I love you and everything you do

To start off, here's something I don't say nearly enough: thank you. Thank you, thank you, thank you from the bottom of my heart. You do so much for me that I can't even put into words how much I appreciate everything you do - and have done - for me over the course of our relationship so far. While every couple has their fair share of tiffs and disagreements, thank you for getting through all of them with me and making us a better couple at the other end. With any argument, we don't just throw in the towel and say we're done, but we work towards a solution that puts us in a greater place each day. Thank you for always working with me and never giving up on us.

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

11 Signs You Grew Up In Hauppauge, NY

Because no one ever really leaves.

24770
Map of Hauppauge, New York
Google

Ah, yes, good old Hauppauge. We are that town in the dead center of Long Island that barely anyone knows how to pronounce unless they're from the town itself or live in a nearby area. Hauppauge is home to people of all kinds. We always have new families joining the community but honestly, the majority of the town is filled with people who never leave (high school alumni) and elders who have raised their kids here. Around the town, there are some just some landmarks and places that only the people of Hauppauge will ever understand the importance or even the annoyance of.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments