One of the worst feelings anyone can ever experience is the feeling of losing yourself.

If you were anything like me, the above was a constant battle for majority of your teenage years. Finding out who you are, and who you want to become... It is a constant struggle between who you are and who you want to be.

Battling with doing things to please others, and doing things to only please yourself. Worrying about living up to other peoples expectations and creating ones of your own. Finding yourself and trying to figure out who you are and where you belong is a constant battle in your head, and it is something you feel like you can never escape from. And the truth is finding yourself might take up an entire lifetime, and let me tell you: it wont be the easiest battle.

There are going to be times where you feel broken and lost. There will be times where you feel like everything is going in the wrong direction and anything and everything you do is not enough. Although I'm not an expert, the one thing I have learned in this constant battle of trying to find myself is nobody else's happiness matters but mine. At the end of the day you have to live wight the decisions that you are making in your life, not anyone else. So do everything in your power to listen to you and only you, and that will be the very first step to finding yourself.