I've gotten this question so many times. It really has me thinking. How have we worked so well?

I’m not sure. What I do know is that we aren’t a normal couple.

It’s almost like something knew exactly what I wanted and handed it to me. I wasn’t even looking when he showed up. And you know, you always hear about “fate” and “soul mates” and cliché things like that.

I’m here to tell you it’s real.

Finding a man who treats you like a queen is possible. Being the happiest person on the planet is possible.

But let’s get back to this. How do we work so well?

I think that it’s the fact that we want the same thing. We’re both goal oriented and think about the future. Maybe it’s how I can’t picture the future without him. Maybe it’s the support and trust we give each other.

Ladies, it’s no secret that having a supportive man is amazing. And if you don’t have that, drop him. I went through life for a long time without the support and love I needed. Right when I gave up, he found me. He lifted me up. He brought me back to a place I lost.

And something about writing this seems wrong. Why am I trying to find an answer to something that doesn’t have an answer?

I only have the possibilities. I only have the slow dances in his basement. I only have the pet names and the weird noises we make when we want something. One thing I do have is the love he gives me.

I keep stopping as I write this. In reality, I can’t imagine being anywhere else in my life than with him. Nothing I write can actually express how I feel about him. All I do know is that I have been in love since the day I met him and I always will be.

So, why do we work so well? We have the same goals and we treat it like a relationship should be treated. Why be in a relationship if it isn’t going anywhere?

He’s all that I need to get through. I can’t promise it’s always easy and I can’t promise that we’re perfect. But, we’re perfect in my eyes.