As any true Carolina basketball fan knows that there is no night more stressful and exhilarating than a night Carolina and Duke face each other. Growing up in my home as a rabid UNC fan, there was a strict set of rules for how to watch the game. I suspect that there is a very similar etiquette in basketball homes across the nation. If you are watching the game in the presence of a very serious fan, it is in your best interest to follow these rules.

1. This should go without saying, but no texting.

Texting during a basketball game is always frowned upon, but it is especially unacceptable during the Duke game. Even if the subject matter of your text is about the game, it is still detracting from your focus. Which brings me to my next point.

2. Pay attention.

In my home, lack of focus was not an option. While the game was being played, eyes were not to wander from the screen. If my parents ever caught me looking down, they threatened to call the orphanage. This was a joke and all in good fun, but the message was clear: Stay attentive.

3. Leave time for reflection.

Every timeout or commercial break my dad would mute the TV. Then my family and I would remain quiet. We wouldn’t say a word. Instead, we would use this time to think about life and the game. We would ponder what needed to be done to play better, and we would certainly send hateful thoughts towards Duke. As soon as the game started back up, volume on the TV was allowed, but talking was still forbidden. Unless of course it was cheering for UNC or uttering a hateful remark towards the team in the wrong shade of blue.

4. You can’t go wrong being superstitious.

Once you are seated and tip-off is over, your spot is your spot for the rest of the game. This is especially true if UNC is playing well. If the Heels are ahead or are on a run, do not move spots. This rule is up for negotiation if Duke is winning. If that is the case, you may try moving around the room a bit to find a spot with better luck.

If you are watching the game coming up this Wednesday in a smaller setting or with a family, I would suggest abiding by these rules. While not every family may be as intense as my own, it is important to show respect to our boys in blue. If these rules are a little too extreme for you just remember the most important rule of all, which is to show an outward Carolina pride no matter the outcome. May the game begin.