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How To Make Friends In College

5 Easy Ways To Make Friends In College

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How To Make Friends In College

Making friends in college is something that students are often worried about, especially if they are going away. It can be scary living in a new place when you don't know anyone. No matter how nervous you may be, you will find your people. Here are some tips on making friends when you go off to school.

1. Be yourself

People often think of college as a time where you can "reinvent yourself". This is somewhat true since nobody knows who you were in the past. However, you can't change who you are. Don't try and act like someone totally different because then the friendships you make won't be real. Be yourself no matter what anyone else says.

2. Have confidence

Even though it is sometimes awkward talking to people you know nothing about it is important to approach others with confidence. It gives out a positive vibe when someone talks like they are comfortable rather than if they are nervous.

3. Go out of your comfort zone

College is all about trying new things! If you get invited to do something you haven't ever done, go for it! You won't know you don't like it until you try it. You may also make some good friends on these adventures also.

4. Go to school events

When I say school events I mean more than just clubs and sports teams. Go to a football game or a game night. There are often events within your residence halls also that the RA's put on throughout the year. Those could be an awesome way to meet people in your building.

5. Put yourself out there

Don't be scared to start a conversation with someone you're sitting next to in class or even someone you're standing next to in line. Who knows, that person could end up being one of your close friends.


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