Not Giving Up Gave Me My Best Friends | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Relationships

Not Giving Up Gave Me My Best Friends

Quitters never win.

31
Not Giving Up Gave Me My Best Friends

I didn't start my life playing ice hockey. My dad played ice hockey and so did my older brother. I loved watching their games cuddled in blankets and sipping on hot chocolate in the 50 degrees Fahrenheit rink. Watching males get thrown against the glass or slammed on the ice. The thunderous sound of a slap-shot being missed and hurdled against the wall. That smell of the crisp, cold air that filled your lungs with an icy blast. However, I didn't start my life playing ice hockey.

I started ice skating when I was around five, "Sooner the better," my father liked to put it.

I had ice skated for a few years and the thought of playing ice hockey never occurred to me. I always thought only boys could play the sport, but one day something inside of me just clicked, I saw a girl playing on my brother's team! I wanted to play ice hockey just like that girl and my father. So, my dad signed me up and next thing I knew I was learning to play ice hockey. Every Saturday morning we would go to our local ice rink and take free skating lessons on how to handle the stick and how to skate. After a few months of picking up on the game, my father had finally signed me up to join a female ice hockey team, the "Lady Patriots."

My first year playing was an interesting year. I was only a sophomore in high school and I was put with all these girls I did not know. My teammates had such large personalities I felt minuscule compared to them. The whole first half of the season, I wouldn't open my mouth unless spoken to. I hated going to practice and I hated playing this sport because I thought I would never fit in. These girls had years of experience on me, I could barely keep up with them. How could I ever fit in on this team?

I decided to keep playing, keep improving. The older girls took me under their wing and helped me gain my voice. I began to finally feel comfortable with all these "strangers." My first year playing ice hockey, I already had a second family.

The next two years playing ice hockey was amazing, new players came and old players left. Now, I had already knew a bunch of the girls on the team, I wasn't this shy girl who had no voice. I now was one of the loudest players on the ice! I had become good friends with all my teammates, I mean I kinda had to considering I saw them three to four times a week, but I really couldn't call any of them my "best friend." That was until I met Alyssa and Issy.

All three of us hadn't really become good friends until my last year playing ice hockey. I don't remember how we became friends, it just happened. We all had such similar personalities, we just clicked!

That last year of playing hockey was my most memorable one. Alyssa and I would pretend we were Captain and Co-Captain of the team, although we were the least experienced of the bunch. We would all yell "YEET" if someone had just sent the puck up the ice. We were inseparable on the ice and off. We would go to each others' prom pictures, birthdays, graduation parties, and even on vacations!


These girls made my experience playing ice hockey into something I will never forget. I have gained life-long best friends. I don't know what I would do without these girls, they mean the world to me. And this is all because of that little girl who wanted to play a sport just like her father.


Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Student Life

A Few Thoughts Every College Freshman Has

The transition into adulthood is never easy

3052
Mays Island
Courtney Jones

Today I started my third week of college at Minnesota State Moorhead. I have survived welcome week, finding my classes on the first day, and being an awkward loner in the dining hall. Even though I have yet to be here for a month, I have already experienced many thoughts and problems that only a new college student can relate to.

Keep Reading...Show less
college

"Make sure to get involved when you're in college!"

We've all heard some variation of this phrase, whether it came from parents, other family members, friends, RAs, or college-related articles. And, like many clichés, it's true for the most part. Getting involved during your college years can help you make friends, build your resume, and feel connected to your campus. However, these commitments can get stressful if you're dealing with personal issues, need to work, or aren't sure how to balance classes and everything else going on during the semester.

Keep Reading...Show less
Relationships

9 Reasons Why Friends Are Essential In College

College without friends is like peanut butter without jelly.

1574
Bridgaline Liberati and friends
Bridgaline Liberati

In college, one of the essential things to have is friends. Yes, textbooks, a laptop, and other school supplies are important but friends are essential. Friends are that support system everybody needs. The more friends you have the better the support system you have. But you also have someone to share experiences with. And don’t settle for just one or two friends because 8 out of 10 times they are busy and you are studying all alone. Or they have other friend groups that do not include you. Don’t settle for just one or two friends; make as many friends as you can. After the first couple of weeks of college, most friend groups are set and you may be without friends.

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

The Power of Dressing Up

Why it pays to leave the hoodie at home.

1191
sneakers and heels
Sister | Brother Style - Word Press

For a moment your world is spinning. The phone alarm has just scared you awake and you’re flooded by daunting thoughts of the day ahead. You have three assignments due and little time to work on them because of your job. You’re running late because you’ve hit snooze one to many times after yesterday’s long hours. You dizzily reach for a hoodie, craving its comfort, and rush for a speedy exit, praying you will have time to pick up coffee. Does this sound familiar?

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

11 Signs You Live At The Library As Told by 'Parks And Recreation'

A few signs that you may live in the library whether you'd like to admit it or not.

1091
brown wooden book shelves with books

Finals week is upon us. It is a magical time of year during which college students everywhere flock to the library in attempt to learn a semester's worth of knowledge in only a week. For some students, it's their first time in the library all semester, maybe ever. Others have slaved away many nights under the fluorescent lights, and are slightly annoyed to find their study space being invaded by amateurs. While these newbies wander aimlessly around the first floor, hopelessly trying to find a table, the OGs of the library are already on the third floor long tables deep into their studies. Here is a few signs that you may live in the library, whether you'd like to admit it or not.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments