How To Know When You've Fallen In Love
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How To Know When You've Fallen In Love

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How To Know When You've Fallen In Love
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Ever since you were a teenager, you wanted to be able to find someone that you would love forever and never get tired of. I'm sure each of you had someone picked out in your mind, from their stature, hair color, build and even what their laugh would sound like. Farther down the road, you find someone who is the complete opposite of what you had pictured, and you are perfectly okay with it.

You have gotten the courage to ask them out and have been dating them for quite awhile. There are a few words that you want to say to them but aren't sure. Because you want to be sure that what you are feeling for them is the real deal. Here is where I'm hoping to help. Just take some time and look for the signs that you have fallen in love with them.

You can't help but smile every single time you think about them. This is a state of infatuation around the first few months of dating, where butterflies fill your stomach everyday, you want to talk and look at them every chance that you get, and you would do anything you can for them. however it can linger longer if the affections lasts more than a few months. You even love the way that they smell. This may be weird but I'm sure we all have done it. I have, I won't deny it.

They will encourage you to want and do better for yourself, whether it's doing better in high school classes, excelling more at sports, to helping you get your life together with finding a new job when you're older. Having someone tell you that they are proud of you no matter who they are, can pick someone who is down in the dumps up to cloud nine very easily.

You can never get tired of them. No matter what happens, trials or fights that arise you will always work things out. You are able to play video games and not get mad at each other when the tension ensues. my absolute favorite part about being in a relationship is that you are simply able to lay beside each other and talk about your day, however don't forget to leave work situations at work. There shouldn't be added drama in the relationship. It makes for a bad situation that should easily be avoided.

I hope this helps, and that your relationship is everything you thought it would be.



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