Everything is always about girls -- what do you want to do, where do you want to go? Well what about the guys? After reading this, you should not only be entertained, but know how to keep a guy for ten days.
1. Don't make it about you.
It could start with the smallest of all things, simply by not making it about you! Why do we always focus on what the girl wants? It's not always about us ladies! We need to please our men too! So for starters, ask him how his day is going or how he's doing.
2. Do not text him like this.
If you're hanging out with him that day, ask him what he wants to do or where he wants to go. If you're going out to eat, even let him pick the restaurant.
3. Don't be disappointed if he picks here --some guys just enjoy fast food.
Sometimes I think women focus on themselves too much and need to know that guys must benefit from the relationship as well. People say it's healthy to have a balanced relationship. The hard part about that is to make sure you're both putting effort in just as much as the other.
4. You both should balance each other out like yin and yang.
So in order to keep him around be spontaneous, try new things -- don't be close minded. Both of you can try each other's hobbies and who knows, maybe you will enjoy them. You can also try getting into what he likes, whether it may be food, music or sports.
5. Watch the big game with him.
Not only do those things, but make him feel wanted like he's never been wanted before. Show him the true meaning of being cared for. You should let him know there's still good people in the world. It's like when you look at a mirror you see the reflection of a person but cannot see the reflection within them.
6. Show him who you really are from the get go.
Still keep it interesting though. Don't totally block yourself out and not talk about you, but make it to where it's just enough to keep his mind wondering about you. Make him want to know you more as if there's a mystery still to be solved.
7. Remember the mind is like a parachute, it doesn't work unless it's open.
Be there. Be there for him when he needs you. Be there when it's three in the morning and he's just going off about not understanding life as it is. Be there through his good times and his bad. There's going to be good days and bad days.
8. Enjoy the good and the bad with him.
Another thing to keep in mind is to not screw it all up, which is a fear of many women when they find a great guy and it seems so intimidating. Some women like myself have this illusion in their heads that everything all seems so great, so great to the point that it all seems too good to be true and that one day it's all going to end, then he vanishes, but in your mind he never does.
9. Don't lose hope.
That's where women struggle. Have some hope, better yet, have some faith. At the end of the day, make your man happy. What is more precious than someone smiling at you and you being able to smile right back?
10. Learn to be happy together.
As you learn more about each other as people, you begin to be happy together you grow as a couple.
11. Grow together.
