It is hard to share a 12’ x 15’ space with someone else 24/7. There are bound to be times when one person drives the other person crazy, but here are tips on how to minimize the number of times that occurs.
1. Be respectful.
2. Have a roommate agreement.
And then actually stick to it. I didn't have a written contract with either one of my roommates, but we did establish what we can and can't do in the room, along with things like bed times and how to handle having people over.
3. Let your roommate know when you have friends coming over.
Don't just walk in with five of your friends and start watching a movie when your roommate is trying to do homework. A quick text that says, "I am coming back with a few friends" goes a long way.
4. Don't be messy.
No, there are no excuses for being messy. Please clean up your mess – no one wants to see that, especially not the person who lives with you.
5. Give your roommate space.
After my new roommate moved in a few weeks ago, it took us a while to learn each other's schedules. Most days I had more classes than her, so it felt like she was there every time I came back to the room. Sometimes we all need space and time alone even if we are not introverts. So be sure to give your roommate alone time!
6. Communicate!!
As tempting as it is to just be super passive-aggressive, no one benefits from that. So be direct and communicate your thoughts.
7. Get to know your roommate.
No, you probably did not just become best friends, but you do know each other a little better now. What everyone tells you about your roommate not necessarily becoming your best friend is true. However, it is important to get to know the person you will be living with for several months, even with the knowledge that they might not become your best friend.
Just use some common sense and the golden rule, and you should be okay!
