Let's say that you are listening to a new album with a group of friends. You look around and some of them are really into the music, some are so-so into it and some are not into it at all. People have their own likes or dislikes when it comes to a certain thing. As for being a hopeless romantic, it's about the effort and giving your all in a relationship. Some are not into it, some are so-so into it and some LOVE it. To be honest, I will say that I am a hopeless romantic. If you are a hopeless romantic, then you should know these 5 signs:
1. Crying over romantic movies
I know that "The Notebook" is only a movie/book, but I remembered when I first watched the movie and I cried when Noah wrote Allie 365 letters to her every day for a year and she didn't realize it because her mom hid all the letters from Allie. Noah wrote 365 letters to Allie while he was away, involving the army. My heart fluttered when I saw that scene and it makes me so happy to see the amount of love they have for each other. If you wind up crying over a romantic movie, you love the thought of romance.
2. You read poetry/books about love
Romance novels and poetry about love is another way to make people swoon. There are so many stories and words that need to be told and it really makes us emotional, but in a more lovable way!
3. You love listening to love songs
Listening to love songs can put you in such an imaginable mood. I remember listening to "Love Me Like You Do" by Ellie Goulding for the first time in my car and I was in love with it from the start to the end! There has to be at least one love song that everyone likes and don't be ashamed to dance to it!
4. You randomly start looking at wedding dresses on the internet or in the store
Wedding dresses are absolutely beautiful! Some people think about what kind of dress that they would wear on their own wedding day, even though the dresses are pretty pricey! Hopeless romantic people think about what kind of future wedding they would like to have. There's nothing wrong with thinking about your own Cinderella day!
5. You believe in love
You believe that there is love out there for you. You believe that love can happen to anyone including yourself. You believe in romance, passion and effort in a relationship. What matters the most is that in order to love someone, it's more important to love yourself first.
Being a hopeless romantic means that you love the idea of love. You love to show affection and consideration towards others and it shows that you don't give up on the thought of finding your true love. Don't be afraid to believe in yourself and someday, you will find the true love of your life!
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