I have written and rewritten the first line of this article about 15 times now. I keep racking my brain on how and what I could possibly write that is actually worth someone's time, but I know that, as long as I'm honest, my words will carry meaning. So, this is honestly me.

I am a child raised on honesty. I value honesty in every relationship, whether it be with my family, friends, coworkers or anyone I come into contact with, really. My mother taught me that, as long as I told the truth, I would never be 'in trouble.' But, I've learned that, over the years, people will lie to you, hurt you, and betray you, even when you've done nothing but be your true and honest self with them. Whether it be your best friend since kindergarten, or your boyfriend/girlfriend of four plus years... People change, alliances change, and hearts change. You can go from knowing someone like the back of your hand, to basically watching the person you love turn into a complete stranger. And that is a hard pill to swallow.

However, I feel as though being honest with yourself, as well as being honest to those around you, is truly the most respectable thing a person can do. No, this is not a sermon on how to better oneself for the sake of themselves and others, but it is a small piece of what I and many others do value and seek in their lives. Feeling the pain and loss of the people you love the most in this world reflects on you, and though it may feel as though you're being punished for some inexplicable reason, loss allows you to grow stronger, straighten up, and look at yourself. Be truthful to yourself. Remember who you are, and pursue your life exactly how you want to, with or without those people who left footprints on your heart, memories for your lonely nights, and various lessons they may have left in their wake. My goal is to only express my vast respect for those who are honest, even when it hurts, even when it's difficult, and even when you are scared. I praise you.

So, this is my rally cry for those of us out there who are constantly basing their trusts on honesty and loyalty. It's not easy, trying to stay afloat in the world as you try and fit in with your peers, coworkers, and any others you may encounter along the way... But, being the most the most down-to-earth you you can be will ultimately bring you the people who are worth the fight, who are going to stand alongside you for the long run, and those who will be in your corner when you need it the most. Sometimes it can be scary, the feeling of being vulnerable, but in the tribulations of your truthful actions, I hope that you find that special someone who will deconstruct their layers, and be their honest self for you.