Finding "Home" In Your College | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Student Life

Finding "Home" In Your College

"Home" as defined by a college student (or by the lack of one).

36
Finding "Home" In Your College
Taylor Ashmore

A quick google search defines the word home as "the place where one lives permanently." For most people, a certain house immediately comes to mind. For college students, it isn't so easy.

College students spend about 7 months of the year living in dorms or apartments on their college campus, and the rest of the 5 months are spent back at their parents' house.

There really is no "home" anymore. Living in a dorm room often feels cramped and unfamiliar, but returning back to your hometown feels distant and odd. Oftentimes it feels like there's nowhere you belong.

Once you are settled in your dorm, it's time to return back to your hometown. Once you've finally become comfortable back in your old house, it's time to return to college. Things are constantly changing, and it's hard to pinpoint a specific location as the place where you spend the majority of your time or a place that truly feels like it's "home" to you.

Though they may not be home, there are great things about living both at college and at your old house. Living on campus gives you a chance to build your own life, separate from both your parents and your past. Your friends become your family, and you're free to make your own decisions and finally become an adult.

On the other hand, however, there's always something comforting about returning to your old house. Though it may not be your home anymore, the memories and your family are still there. There's always some comfort in being back in your house with your family.

Though home is no longer a specific location, you can still find the same comfort by being with your friends and family, wherever that may be.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
student sleep
Huffington Post

I think the hardest thing about going away to college is figuring out how to become an adult. Leaving a household where your parents took care of literally everything (thanks, Mom!) and suddenly becoming your own boss is overwhelming. I feel like I'm doing a pretty good job of being a grown-up, but once in awhile I do something that really makes me feel like I'm #adulting. Twenty-somethings know what I'm talking about.

Keep Reading...Show less
school
blogspot

I went to a small high school, like 120-people-in-my-graduating-class small. It definitely had some good and some bad, and if you also went to a small high school, I’m sure you’ll relate to the things that I went through.

1. If something happens, everyone knows about it

Who hooked up with whom at the party? Yeah, heard about that an hour after it happened. You failed a test? Sorry, saw on Twitter last period. Facebook fight or, God forbid, real fight? It was on half the class’ Snapchat story half an hour ago. No matter what you do, someone will know about it.

Keep Reading...Show less
Chandler Bing

I'm assuming that we've all heard of the hit 90's TV series, Friends, right? Who hasn't? Admittedly, I had pretty low expectations when I first started binge watching the show on Netflix, but I quickly became addicted.

Without a doubt, Chandler Bing is the most relatable character, and there isn't an episode where I don't find myself thinking, Yup, Iam definitely the Chandler of my friend group.

Keep Reading...Show less
eye roll

Working with the public can be a job, in and of itself. Some people are just plain rude for no reason. But regardless of how your day is going, always having to be in the best of moods, or at least act like it... right?

1. When a customer wants to return a product, hands you the receipt, where is printed "ALL SALES ARE FINAL" in all caps.

2. Just because you might be having a bad day, and you're in a crappy mood, doesn't make it okay for you to yell at me or be rude to me. I'm a person with feelings, just like you.

3. People refusing to be put on hold when a customer is standing right in front of you. Oh, how I wish I could just hang up on you!

Keep Reading...Show less
blair waldorf
Hercampus.com

RBF, or resting b*tch face, is a serious condition that many people suffer from worldwide. Suffers are often bombarded with daily questions such as "Are you OK?" and "Why are you so mad?" If you have RBF, you've probably had numerous people tell you to "just smile!"

While this question trend can get annoying, there are a couple of pros to having RBF.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments