3 Ways You Can Improve Your Love Life, According To History | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Relationships

3 Ways You Can Improve Your Love Life, According To History

And also some cool history too!

43
3 Ways You Can Improve Your Love Life, According To History

Whether you already love history or are a total newbie, you're probably aware of at least a few important figures, such as George Washington or Joseph Stalin.

However, what you may not know are the personal relationships of these history makers. If you check out some of those relationships, you'll definitely learn a thing or two about love and can use that to make your relationships all the better!

As can be seen here, both Justinian and Theodora loved holding gaint objectshttps://charlotteriggle.com/justinian-and-theodora...

1. The Byzantine power couple from the 500s CE, Justinian and Theodora, provides an awesome example of a couple who've got each others' backs, no matter what.

Justinian faced several crises during his reign, including a massive armed rebellion in Constantinople against him as well as falling into a coma due to plague. During these trying times, his wife Theodora took the reigns of the empire, urging him to stand firm against the rebels when Justinian wanted to flee as well as fending off rogue generals and political rivals who attempted to depose Justinian while he was comatose.

Theodora was also an early advocate for women's equality, and Justinian passed new laws that helped Theodora achieve this goal she had so much passion for. These two supported each other's goals and assured one another of their capabilities when facing down tremendous pressure.

Everyone should have a partner with whom they can have this mutually beneficial relationship where you hype each other up and cover each other's weak spots; who would've thought that helping each other be their best selves could lead to such a healthy and awesome relationship?!

2. Next up we have John Adams and Abigail Adams.

While John had a less than stellar stint as the second President of the United States, he's often recognized for his legal brilliance and stubborn adherence to freedom and justice for all people. His wife, Abigail Adams, was also incredibly smart and was an early feminist who frequently discussed the topic with John.

Their discussions lead to what was, by many accounts, a very happy marriage that was also more of an equal partnership compared to the typical patriarchal structure of contemporary relationships. In other words, treating each other like equal people and individuals within the relationship actually led to a far more happy and productive relationship overall.

If you're out there reading this and your relationship isn't quite following through on doing this, you should definitely find a way to make it happen by changing your current dynamic or finding a new partner. You deserve mutual love and respect!

3. For our last couple, we have two people you should definitely 100% never try to emulate: Edward VIII and Wallis Simpson.

Edward was the King of England for under a year, where he caused a constitutional crisis that would eventually result in his abdication due to his desire to marry Wallis. The details are a little too intense to recount here, but basically, Edward's brother became the king so that Edward could marry Wallis.

While this may sound happy and romantic, there is significant evidence showing that both people had several affairs during the course of their relationship and that it grew increasingly toxic for both over time. If that wasn't bad enough, the duo was also both sympathizers with the Nazis and was on good personal terms with Hitler himself.

Overall, these two are definitely not the couple to emulate in your life. In short, to keep your relationships happy, don't have affairs and don't be Nazis!

History has been filled with a lot of crazy couples, but hopefully, a look at these three has given you some great tips on how to keep a good relationship that is respectful to you and your partner.

A quick recap: support each other and have each other's back no matter what, treat each other fairly and equally in a respectful relationship, and finally, don't have affairs or be a Nazi, and especially don't be friends with Adolf Hitler!

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Featured

12 Midnight NYE: Fun Ideas!

This isn't just for the single Pringles out there either, folks

13426
Friends celebrating the New Years!
StableDiffusion

When the clock strikes twelve midnight on New Year's Eve, do you ever find yourself lost regarding what to do during that big moment? It's a very important moment. It is the first moment of the New Year, doesn't it seem like you should be doing something grand, something meaningful, something spontaneous? Sure, many decide to spend the moment on the lips of another, but what good is that? Take a look at these other suggestions on how to ring in the New Year that are much more spectacular and exciting than a simple little kiss.

Keep Reading...Show less
piano
Digital Trends

I am very serious about the Christmas season. It's one of my favorite things, and I love it all from gift-giving to baking to the decorations, but I especially love Christmas music. Here are 11 songs you should consider adding to your Christmas playlists.

Keep Reading...Show less
campus
CampusExplorer

New year, new semester, not the same old thing. This semester will be a semester to redeem all the mistakes made in the previous five months.

1. I will wake up (sorta) on time for class.

Let's face it, last semester you woke up with enough time to brush your teeth and get to class and even then you were about 10 minutes late and rollin' in with some pretty unfortunate bed head. This semester we will set our alarms, wake up with time to get ready, and get to class on time!

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

The 5 Painfully True Stages Of Camping Out At The Library

For those long nights that turn into mornings when the struggle is real.

2579
woman reading a book while sitting on black leather 3-seat couch
Photo by Seven Shooter on Unsplash

And so it begins.

1. Walk in motivated and ready to rock

Camping out at the library is not for the faint of heart. You need to go in as a warrior. You usually have brought supplies (laptop, chargers, and textbooks) and sustenance (water, snacks, and blanket/sweatpants) since the battle will be for an undetermined length of time. Perhaps it is one assignment or perhaps it's four. You are motivated and prepared; you don’t doubt the assignment(s) will take time, but you know it couldn’t be that long.

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

The 14 Stages Of The Last Week Of Class

You need sleep, but also have 13 things due in the span of 4 days.

1584
black marker on notebook

December... it's full of finals, due dates, Mariah Carey, and the holidays. It's the worst time of the year, but the best because after finals, you get to not think about classes for a month and catch up on all the sleep you lost throughout the semester. But what's worse than finals week is the last week of classes, when all the due dates you've put off can no longer be put off anymore.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments