All the time, I am being told that I am a high maintenance girl. But, in reality, am I truly one? Don't get me wrong, I can be a drama queen, but I think high maintenance is a little far. I didn't really think I was high maintenance, so I decided to look into signs that a girl is high maintenance.
So I go onto Google and type in "high maintenance girls" and come across this article, "15 Signs You're High Maintenance." As I'm reading it's 15 points on how a girl is high maintenance mostly by material items, I came to the decision that there are two different types of high maintenance: money high maintenance and attention high maintenance.
"Money high maintenance girls" are the type of girls who always look like they just walked out of a salon, or they feel as if they're the best girl on the block, and they deserve someone so much better than what they have. They tend to attract more of the "frat" type of guys, and they tend to have a lot of things handed to them growing up. These girls also pay to much more attention to the things in life that don't matter at all, such as expensive clothing, whether someone's purse is real or not or if another girl is wearing Kylie Jenner's lipstick -- stupid pointless things that won't get them anywhere. These girls feel as if they deserve all the newest material items, like the newest Michael Kors bag, or the newest iPhone. All they are worried about is how they look, and they want the newest and most expensive things.
And then you have my kind of high maintenance, aka the attention high maintenance.
I want to be held, and loved. Appreciated, and happy. I want you to give as much love and time in our relationship as I do. I want to be told I'm pretty, even at my worst. When I'm acting like a brat, I want to be told it'll be OK and to stop acting childish. I just want to have the best relationship I can possibly have. I don't need your money, or material items to be happy with you. Don't get me wrong, I enjoy nice things, but I don't need them. I need your love, affection, and time. If acting like a princess at times because I miss you, or because I'm just in one of those moods is consider high maintenance, then have at it.
I am a high maintenance girl for attention and love, but not for material items.