Here's What To Expect If You Love Me Next | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Relationships

Here's What To Expect If You Love Me Next

I'm not leaving anything out this time.

77
Here's What To Expect If You Love Me Next
Danielle Rizzicone

First and foremost, expect articles like this to be written about you. Expect to almost never win an argument, and expect to work your ass off to keep me. Expect to accept the fact that I will always believe I am funnier and you will most likely never get a word in edgewise. Expect a temper and a sailor's mouth and zero filters when I've had too much wine, or even when I haven't. Expect 10 texts in a row and then no texts at all and a whole lot of emojis. Expect a dirty mind and inappropriate laughter. Expect too much pride and endless dedication to my future. If you can get past all this, if you plan on loving me next then know you're planning on accepting me for all of this and more.

And if my temper, my pride, and my incredible sense of humor don't scare you then expect this- expect endless support over your hopes and dreams. Expect birthdays and holidays and anniversaries to be celebrated to the extreme. Expect snuggles and kisses and "I miss you's". Expect to be treated with all the respect in the world and then some. Expect romance and silly jokes and a lot of kidding "I hate you's." Expect nicknames and handshakes and inside jokes. Expect me to be your biggest supporter, your number 1 fan, and your cheerleader. Expect a whole lot of love (that I'm often too scared to give). If you learn to love me despite my flaws, know that I am worth it. I am so worth it. I spent my whole life believing I wasn't enough, I was hard to love, and that I was unlovable because of my flaws. So if the time comes and you learn to love me for me, expect endless love. Love that I've been waiting to give to someone who deserves it. The love you can only believe happens in dreams and stories. But also know that I will expect some things from you, too.

I will expect you to be faithful and loyal and decent. I will expect you to listen when I have a bad day and to listen without judgment. I will expect you to know that my job, my career, and my future are extremely important to me, and to respect that. I expect "I miss you" texts, and "I love you" calls. I expect surprises and forehead kisses. I expect laughter and smiles and fun. I expect honesty and respect. I expect "please and thank you's" and good morals. I expect decency towards humans, animals, and nature. I expect you to challenge me, to educate me, and to make me question the unknown. I expect you to get angry with me, to fight with me, and then to get past it and make-up. Love isn't easy and it's going to probably be really hard, but I've expected so much from people who have constantly let me down, so here you have it, it's all written here. This is what I expect, this is what you can expect, and if you feel for even a second you can't meet my expectations then do me a favor and let someone else bother because I've had too many disappointments to expect anything less.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Student Life

The Daily Struggles of Being a College Commuter

It's not all morning coffees and singing along to the radio.

329
The Daily Struggles of Being a College Commuter
morethanwheels

I've been in college for four years now. I spent half my time as a commuter and half as a resident so I've experienced both sides of the housing spectrum. One thing I've learned comparing the two is that my struggles as a commuter far outweigh anything I went through while living on campus. Commuters have to deal with the problems school brings along with a slew of other issues; I've filled up my gas tank in the worst kind of weather conditions and napped in random places in public more times than I'm proud to say of. This is a list of some of the most challenging aspects of being a commuter.

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

15 Times Michael Scott's Life Was Worse Than Your Life

Because have you ever had to endure grilling your foot on a George Foreman?

3125
Michael Scott
NBC

Most of the time, the world's (self-proclaimed) greatest boss is just that, the greatest. I mean, come on, he's Michael Freakin' Scott after all! But every once in a while, his life hits a bit of a speed bump. (or he actually hits Meredith...) So if you personally are struggling through a hard time, you know what they say: misery loves company! Here are 15 times Michael Scott's life was worse than your life:

Keep Reading...Show less
Featured

12 Midnight NYE: Fun Ideas!

This isn't just for the single Pringles out there either, folks

17442
Friends celebrating the New Years!
StableDiffusion

When the clock strikes twelve midnight on New Year's Eve, do you ever find yourself lost regarding what to do during that big moment? It's a very important moment. It is the first moment of the New Year, doesn't it seem like you should be doing something grand, something meaningful, something spontaneous? Sure, many decide to spend the moment on the lips of another, but what good is that? Take a look at these other suggestions on how to ring in the New Year that are much more spectacular and exciting than a simple little kiss.

Keep Reading...Show less
piano
Digital Trends

I am very serious about the Christmas season. It's one of my favorite things, and I love it all from gift-giving to baking to the decorations, but I especially love Christmas music. Here are 11 songs you should consider adding to your Christmas playlists.

Keep Reading...Show less
campus
CampusExplorer

New year, new semester, not the same old thing. This semester will be a semester to redeem all the mistakes made in the previous five months.

1. I will wake up (sorta) on time for class.

Let's face it, last semester you woke up with enough time to brush your teeth and get to class and even then you were about 10 minutes late and rollin' in with some pretty unfortunate bed head. This semester we will set our alarms, wake up with time to get ready, and get to class on time!

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments