Be thankful for every heartbreak inflicted upon you,

For they were planned.

They come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you.

Some last a while and others are short lived.

But eventually they all leave.

Their purpose is to shake you up inside,

Make you wonder and think,

Tear a part your ego bit by bit.

They are meant to show you that many obstacles will break your heart open,

And crush it into a million pieces.

Just so that new light can get in.

They make you desperate and out of control,

So much so that you change your life to accommodate the new light.

They force you to transform your life,

And you will.

Maybe not at first,

But after some time you'll realize that's your only option.

Don't hate the people who break your heart.

They were their to teach you a lesson about yourself.

And about your life.

So be thankful that they taught you more about not only yourself,

But also about what you want out of life.

Every heartbreak helps you.

It helps you move forward and move on.

Every heartbreak inflicted upon you,

make your life just a little bit better.

Whether you know it or not,

Every heartbreak helps you grow.