1) Remember the beginning- focus on key aspects that made you fall in love in the first place. Talk about your first kiss, first date, favorite memory, or more.

2) Be clear about needs and desires- our spouses are not mind-readers, express your thoughts to them, or they will never know.

3) Forgive effectively

4) Don't compare past with present

5) Forget about your pride- don't try to be the right one every time. Take ownership in your ways.

6) Value each others opinions- be understanding of your loved one, you don't always have to agree

7) Accept responsibility

8) Make decisions together- always keep your spouse in mind when making a decision that could affect your relationship

9) Create shared meanings- make your own traditions and rituals that make your relationship unique

10) When you fight, don't let a day pass