We always see articles or magazine covers: “How To End A Toxic Relationship” “10 Signs Your In A Bad Relationship” or “How You Know He Is Not The One For You.” However, it is rare that we see things like “How You Know You Have Found Your Person” or “10 Signs You Found Your Other Half.” So let me ask you have you found your soul mate? There are a few qualities that a significant other should have for you to know they are the one for you. Find a guy who supports you and motivates you to reach your dreams. When your goals fall a little too short, he is there to help you get back on your feet again. He has a contagious smile and when he laughs you laugh. He has to be the best secret keeper. You two can just sit and talk about anything and everything until 2 A.M. You have fun together no matter what you are doing as long as you’re doing it together. He is the first person you want to tell when something bad or good happens to you. This man is kind, caring, and always puts you and your needs before his own, like saving the last slice of pizza for you. Make sure he loves his Momma because that’s how he is going to treat you someday. If he is the one he will be loyal and trust worthy. Find somebody that loves adventure and wants to try new things with you. Don’t fall into a “routine relationship” where you are bored of doing the same things all the time. Find the type of relationship where you have no idea where the day is going to take you two. You two could have plans to go to dinner and a movie, then next thing you know you wind up spending the entire day having food fights in the kitchen chasing each other around the house. Somebody who is spontaneous and that will continue to surprise you with his charm. Obviously, he has to be gentleman; opens the door for you and helps you carry the groceries in. He must be respectful and treat you like a lady. If he values family and has good morals he’s a keeper. Most people think that the “person” for them is somebody they have a lot in common with but that is not the case. Find somebody who is completely different than you, it keeps life entertaining and different. You can learn from each other and help each other grow. If he is the one he will know you better than you know yourself. Someone you feel so comfortable with you could even pee with the door open or shove your face with food. He knows how to make you happy even when you are at your worst. He knows your ticklish spots and your soft spots. Of course I have to be cliché and corny for a minute, he obviously has to give you butterflies and fireworks. Someone that still makes you feel like a little kid. When you kiss its still like the first time all over again. He still makes you excited and anxious to see him. His friends and family become your friends and family. He shows you off and is proud to call you his girl. So now that me ask you a question, does the guy you were thinking about the whole time while reading this have all of those qualities? If the answer is yes, you have found your forever best friend and if I were you I would never let him go.
