There are so many stigmas with having a tattoo and honestly, there shouldn’t be. But the funny thing is, that most people do not know I have one or even notice mine until I mention it or use my pointer finger a specific way. Whenever someone notices mine I typically get “That is so cute; I didn’t even notice it.” I occasionally get the “That’s dumb why did you do that?” comment. But ya know what? I do not have to justify my tattoo to anyone.

It was an incredibly personal choice I made over two years ago that I had previously thought two years about before even getting. I went back and forth with the pros and cons of getting one, and first brought it up to my parents when I was in high school. I truly would not have done it if I did not talk about it in great detail with my parents and get their approval. Heck, my mom went with me, and my dad went with me to get it touched up.

The reason I got the tattoo was an individual choice and I do not just share it with anyone. It’s just a typical cross on the inside of my finger. Hidden away, and does not draw any attention. This cross is so important to me and what I went through during a challenging time in my life. It is a constant reminder to find God every day in everything you do. No, I did not just get it “to get it” I got it because it means something so much more to mean than just a cross.

I draw so much strength from this tattoo. So, it's okay if you do not agree with them, or think I am a “bad person” because I have one. I can assure you I am not, but I will never judge anyone based on a tattoo. It is something very special and you never know the story behind it. So before you judge maybe think of why they got it and ask them, and if it is not too intimate I am sure they will tell you.

This is not something I am ashamed of or regret. I am proud of it because I know what it means to me. Getting a tattoo myself changed my opinion on others who have tattoos and maybe this article will change your opinion too.