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Having Sex On The First Date Doesn't Make You Any Less Worthy Of Girlfriend Material

You and your partner just need to be on the same page and share similar values.

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Having Sex On The First Date Doesn't Make You Any Less Worthy Of Girlfriend Material
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He must be liking what he is seeing. He is saying all the right things and even got you laughing out loud.

You are no longer nervous and starts to overlook his flaws.

At the moment, you are blinded and think you caught a good catch. He has a good job, funny smart and the physical attraction is mutual. Who is going to make the first move? His place or mine? The whole time convincing yourself that you shouldn't. What is the worst that can happen?

Your mind is made up, as you cursing out the fool that invented the three months rule?

In today's society, women are always being judged. If a woman has sex too quickly they are easy and not worthy. When a woman makes a man wait, she is boring and he moves on. Even if it is the guy that initiated it, whenever a woman agrees and gives in to have sex on the first date guys assume that she is not relationship material. When a woman initiates it, guys usually make unfair assumptions and think that she is low in character.“ The man usually views her as immoral and that she does it all the time with multiple partners.

Women have sex on the first date for several reasons, intense physical attraction, feeling adventurous, being misled by mixed signals, or just to receive affection. Sometimes, us women can overthink the situation and get cold feet. Some women also feel devalue the day after also.

Men, however, may not be the only ones judging women’s sexual activity.

Sex on the first date does influence the chances of forming a long-term relationship but so does a lot of things. It is important to get to know the other person so the relationship won’t be based solely on sex. Withholding sex from a guy for sixty days on the basis of him chasing you and sticking around is also not the right approach. You and your partner just need to be on the same page and share similar values.

So, no, not having sex on the first date doesn't mean you are not girlfriend material.

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