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To The Girl Just Having A Crappy Day

Maybe you failed your test, are in a fight with your friends, broke up with your boyfriend, but it will be OK.

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To The Girl Just Having A Crappy Day

We've all been there. The days that something is happening and you feel hopeless, sad, and confused about everything. Whatever it is, know that it always gets better.

If it's because you are in a fight with your friends about something or dealing with people that are just straight up mean to you, know it happens. Life isn't always going to be easy, you could be best friends with someone and still get in fights. You can be the nicest person, and people will still find something to be mean to you about.

At the end of the day, if they are your best friends, you will be OK. Take time and let things cool off, tell them you are sorry and that you love them. If you are dealing with mean girls, it may seem like things will never get better or wonder to yourself when am I going to find friends that are nice to me. I've been there, it seems hopeless, but it does get better. I never thought I was going to find genuine friends who loved me and supported me, but I did, and you will too. Stick up for yourself and know what you deserve out of someone who you call a friend because when you love yourself enough to do so, you will find it is those genuine people you've wanted in your life that you will find.

Maybe you are struggling in school, failed a big test you studied so long for, or just confused about what you want to do for the rest of your life. Let me tell you, no one knows what they want to do in life, you aren't alone. It's stressful, and somedays it weighs on you a lot more than usual, but don't stress! Life will work out how it's supposed to. You will end up in a job for something you love and are going to be the successful person you've wanted to be your whole life. So you failed a test, everyone does at some point. A test does not define you and does not ruin your future like you think it will remember that. You will be OK.

Maybe your crappy day is because of guy problems. Maybe things didn't work out with a guy as you had hoped, or just got your heart broken. It's OK to feel sad, it's human nature to be upset about things like this. But, remember you are amazing, smart, funny, caring, and a guy not seeing this in you doesn't mean that another one won't. Cry with your friends, eat a whole pint of ice cream, watch the movie that makes you laugh so hard you can't breathe and remember you will be OK. Maybe not in a day, but you will be happy again. Carry that hope with you.

We all have crappy days, with whatever it might be you are dealing with on yours, remember one thing: There is a whole life to live out there! Places to travel to and see, people to meet, experiences to have, friends to make the best memories with, there is so much good in life and so much to look forward to. You can continue to let your day be crappy and feel sad, or you can tell yourself whatever it is will be OK, and continue forward to all of the things life has in store for you.

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