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Harry Potter Guide To Guy Friends

For Those Trying To Define Relationships

Elizabeth Foil

Sep 27, 2016

Lawrenceville, Georgia

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We’ve all been there, trying to explain why a certain guy could never be an interest, why some guys are friends in different degrees, and how some guys really start in our hearts as friends but become so much more.

I am the Hermione Granger type. You know? Strong willed. Sassy. Opinionated. Passionate. Book nerd. Likes definitions. You get the picture.

I just wish I had the magic part… Come on let’s be real this would be this best thing EVER!

There are so many things we can learn from these books. J.K. Rowling is #goals. Love her. Now to get into this, have you ever had a hard time distinguishing your relationships with guys? I know I have struggled with this, especially since it can change over time.

One day it hit me while watching Harry Potter: the story and relationships between characters are the basis for how to explain our relationships. Thank you, J.K. Rowling, for making life less complicated.

So let’s get into it, shall we?

Who is your Neville? Harry? Ron? Draco?

Neville – the guy who is your friend that you don’t have feelings for but he also isn’t your best friend either. This is the majority of the guys you know.

Harry – he is the guy who is your best friend but you don’t feel romantic about him. You both know where you stand and this is the most pivotal part of your friendship. Sometimes a guy may be a Neville but he can’t be a Harry without 1) being your best friend 2) isn’t a romantic interest 3) he also has to know 1 & 2. Harry knew the entire time where he and Hermione stood. The line was clear, he was like her brother and that is what makes their relationship so amazing.

Ron – the guy that makes you defy logic, which in and of itself is a miracle because logic is one of your defining qualities. He is the guy you want to run up and hug but force yourself to remain calm so you hug Harry instead because Harry is safe.

Now we can’t forget about Draco either. He is the guy who pushes your buttons, but not in a good way. He is the guy you wouldn’t even call a friend because he is the definition of a jerk. You know? The guy you put in his place when needed.How can you distinguish your Harry from your Ron?

Looking at it I asked myself which guy is the one I like? RON. Duh. He is charming, downright hysterical, but mostly there is more to him than first meets the eye. Then there is Harry. We all want a Harry in our lives. He is the guy who might as well be your brother because you are so close. He is the guy friend you get advice from when Ron is being stupid.

Ron is the guy you cry over and this is proof that he is the Ron and not Harry of your life. Ron is the one guy who can break your heart as well as make you fly in one look or one word. Keep in mind this guy may have been the “friend” for a while but he made his way into your heart and it really didn’t take much. However, it did take a lot for Hermione to admit it.

So...

Who is your Harry?

Who is your Ron?

No complication. Next time you have to explain the type of relationship you have with a guy friend use the Harry Potter Guide to Guy Friends. Your Harry can’t be your Ron it is just that simple.

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1. I will wake up (sorta) on time for class.

2. I will look decent for class.

3. I will go to the gym more.

4. I will go to the library and study more.

5. I will meet new people.

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4. When the Yearning for Sleep Sneaks Up

5. In the words of Lorelai Gilmore "Coffee, Coffee, Coffee"

Oh, so done.

You need sleep, but also have 13 things due in the span of 4 days.

1. When it's December 1 and you have seven things due, three exams, and haven't slept in three days.

2. So you stress.

3. And cry.

4. Then call your mom to cry some more.

5. After the pep talk, you feel determined to get everything done.

6. But, now you're tired.

7. And really hungry.

8. Suddenly, it's 2 a.m. and you have only written three sentences and your paper is due in the morning.

9. You've made it to Friday... somehow.

10. Then Sunday hits and you find yourself back at the Lib.

11. So you cry some more.

12. But, you fight through the tears to get everything done because you're determined.

13. In the end, you feel on top of the world because you made it through the last week of class alive.

14. But, now it's finals week so good luck.

The ultimate list and gif guide to a college student's brain during finals.

What does the world outside the library look like?

Can I read this entire book tonight?

I should have gone to class more often.

Did the professor even teach this?

What is the lowest grade I can get on this exam and still pass the class?

Should I just drop out of school now?

Finals are ruining Christmas.

Just wrote three sentences so time for a break.

Need. More. Coffee.

What is sleep?

I'm too stupid for college.

Brain hurts.

Time for a Facebook Break.

I think I'm dying.

When will I ever need this information in the real world?

I can't read any of my notes.

I need my mom.

When was the last time I showered?

I need study snacks.

The struggle is so real right now.

"I want to thank Google, Wikipedia, and whoever else invented copy and paste. Thank you."

1. I'm so tired. I need a nap. Maybe I can sleep with my eyes open in class? Or pretend I'm not napping?

2. We have a test today? Why didn't anyone tell me? Did I know this?!

3. Can I quit school yet? It's only October, and I need a vacation.

4. The struggle is so real.

5. I'm so broke. SOS.

6. Stressed? Eat everything you own in your pantry and stuff your face with all your feelings.

7. "Did we have anything due in class today? Homework? Quiz? Test?" "Not that I know of..."

8. I need food. Where is the closest place to get food? I need it stat.

9. This is the longest day of my life. I need a drink, or two, or three.

10. Sleep? What is sleep? What a foreign concept.

11. When someone suggests going and studying in the library, let alone studying in general.

12. When the cafeteria or student center is packed and you can't find a seat anywhere so you literally have to sit in an abandoned corner.

13. When you see someone you used to hook up with. They see you, and approach you; so you have to pretend like everything is normal.

14. When you get your exam and realize you didn't study as much as you should have.

15. When you crush it on an exam or paper that you totally bullshitted.

16. I need a grande, extra strong coffee to get me through today.

17. When the professor announces you have a project due the following week with no instruction on what it's on and how to do it.

18. Is it Friday yet? Where's the weekend when you need it most?

19. It's freezing in here. I feel like I'm sitting in an igloo. I should have brought a jacket or worn long pants.

20. Did I remember my book? Damn, I forgot the book, and of course I need it for that quiz in class.

21. I would pay a million dollars to not go to class today; or actually never again.

22. I need a hoverboard to ride to class. Maybe then I wouldn't be running 15 minutes late to class every day.

23. Oh she/he's cute! I wonder if they're single. Who are they texting? They're BF/GF? I wonder if they think I'm cute. Could they be a potential new bae?

24. Why is there never any parking? I pay thousands of dollars a year for one parking spot to be open.

25. When it feels like you've been in class for an hour and you look at your phone and it has only been five minutes (I'm crying on the inside).

26. When the professor asks if there are any more questions at the end of class and someone raises their hand.

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