Inclusion, acceptance, advocacy, and awareness – these are the four key words that describe what October is all about. Yes, October is the month that begins the holiday season with Halloween at the end of the month, but that’s only one of the things October is known for. October is Down Syndrome Awareness Month, the most important part of this month. Even with the abundance of research and many advancements, Trisomy 21 is still commonly misunderstood in society. This month is meant to educate others, celebrate these individuals, and spread awareness about down syndrome.

We look at society today and see so many different types of people – old, young, short, tall – making their abilities present in our society. However, there are some individuals who are ostracized because other people only view these individuals for their disabilities. Why this is the reason October is so important. This month is not about celebrating these individual’s disabilities, it is about celebrating their wonderful abilities that they should have the chance to show off in the world every single day.

As you’re looking around in society, also keep your ears open. As you do, you will hear the word “retarded” thrown around like it’s last weeks’ rubbish. It is ridiculous, absolutely ridiculous. It has become a commonality on our society. Not only has it become a commonality, but a politically incorrect commonality in society’s vocabulary. Would you joke around with your friend and call him “retarded” if you knew your friend’s cousin has autism and was being bullied for being developmentally disabled? Would you say the word “retarded” when you’re making fun of your little sibling if you knew your neighbor’s cousin has intellectual disabilities and just wanted to be accepted into society like everyone else? I am hoping the answer is no to whoever reads this, whoever shares this for awareness, whoever comes in contact with someone still using the R-word. It is outright ignorance. Although this term “mental retardation” is now outdated and not societally correct, it is still an offensive term used against individuals who have mental and intellectual disabilities. Words matter. They can be barriers and they can be eye-openers, but they can also deprive people of their individual characteristics and strengthen common stereotypes in society. This is when you must step in. This is why this month is important. Listen to those around you. Stop them. Stop the R-word.

Be wise with your interactions. Keep an open mind. Practice acceptance. Listen to their individual stories and passions. Embrace those passions. This can open doors for the understanding and for the respect of people with intellectual disabilities, ultimately allowing them to grow and lead fuller, more independent lives. Their abilities, passions, and individualism should always have the chance to be shown off in society. We must encourage and assist these individuals to adapt to the social norms and allow for them to share their gifts with the rest of society.

With that, celebrate Down Syndrome Awareness Month. Celebrate all of the amazing abilities these individuals bring to our society. And always remember, awareness is key.