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Happiness Comes To Those Who Wait

Even when it seems impossible.

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Happiness Comes To Those Who Wait
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I always try to live by the saying, “things happen for a reason.” The way life pans and the people you meet tie together this wonderful journey, but as we get older, consistently living by this motto becomes a challenge. Being surrounded by friends and family that have success can sometimes be discouraging and left me wondering…

When will it be my turn?

I used to analyze everyone around me and wonder why everything seemed to just be handed to them. I wanted to know why it seemed every girl was in a “perfect” relationship, and I was left alone. However, constantly comparing yourself to other people is exhausting.

It wasn’t until one day I made a pact with myself. I was going to stop worrying about what everyone else thought and stop feeling sorry for myself. It’s tough, but taking genuine time for yourself opens an inner spirit and allows you to be your true self.

I could finally be happy.

I no longer let the influences of other people control my life, and started doing things for me. Then, when least expected, I met the someone who has shown me the meaning of life and has allowed me to truly love myself again.

We’ve all struggled at times, but when you finally find someone who not only understands who you are but understands these struggles, it allows you to grow and move on as a person. It makes you realize this is the person you want to spend the rest of your life with.

Never lose hope. I know there’s happiness out there in the world for everyone. Never let other people deter you, and most importantly, wait.

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