There are things about occasions such as holidays, weddings, birthdays or other types of big celebrations that I enjoy. However, these times bring a lot of emotion for me and a lot of sad feelings, even if the occasion seems like it should bring me great happiness. I get overwhelmed by changes, by time passing, and by memories, and most holidays and occasions are full of these things. At birthdays, whether it is my own or the birthday of a loved one, though I love celebrating the life of that person, I have to fight extreme sadness and anxiety at the realization that I am growing older, that people I love are growing older and that we can never go back to time gone by. At weddings, though I love celebrating the beautiful sacrament of marriage that God created to join together a man and a woman, I am overwhelmed by the emotion of the occasion, by the solemn, serious wonderful life change that is taking place in these people's lives. The fact that once the ceremony is over, they are no longer individual people but a couple, belonging wholly to each other, totally overwhelms me. At holidays such as Christmas and Easter, though I love celebrating those special days and though as a Christian, I know them to be very wonderful occasions to recall the mystery of Jesus' life, for several years I have gotten very emotional when one of these holidays comes instead of feeling happy and excited. Most of this emotion is because these occasions are not like I remember as a kid, and the sweet memories of past holidays make the present harder, and part of the emotion is due to the fact that I always build my hopes up too high. I want these days to be perfect and to always feel great, and that is unreasonable and impossible. Though holidays and big life events are wonderful things to celebrate, some of the happiest times I have experienced in the past several years have been seemingly ordinary days full of simple pleasures and sweet moments, such as times I spent with my friends and loved ones, laughing, talking, playing games, enjoying a beautiful day in nature or just being together. Other very happy times have been days that I spent riding my horse in the pasture, or brushing his soft coat while he nuzzled me and puffed sweet breaths on my cheek. Other sweet times have been times spent with children, reading books to them, tickling them, snuggling with them, or watching them play and run around. Many of the things that give me the greatest happiness and contentment are not fancy parties, expensive material things or big occasions. I don't need to go to a fancy restaurant or an exciting trip to be entertained, happy, excited or satisfied. I feel happy just being near someone I am close to, who understands and loves me. Seeing their smile makes me happy or feeling their arms around me and their heart beat against me when they hug me. I feel peace flowing into my soul when petting the soft fur or feathers of a pet, looking up at a beautiful tree, reading a good book, or watching a butterfly or bird fly about on a gentle wind. Some people crave noisy, crowded brilliant excitement at parties, clubs or occasions. Some people don't feel happy unless they travel frequently, and others desire new clothes and shoes and don't feel satisfied till they are wearing them. But I am a person who loves calm, quiet pleasures. For me, it's often the things that seem most simple, that make me happiest.
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1. Drink lots of tea with honey.
Photo by Jessica Mangano on UnsplashDrinking tea always soothes my throat whenever I'm sick and adding honey will only help! Every kind of tea has its own personal benefits for you, so you can never go wrong with a cup of tea while sick. Different teas provide you with different nutrients, and the more nutrients your body has, the better it will feel. My personal favorite flavor of tea is vanilla honey tea.
2. Get a good amount of rest.
Photo by Isabella Fischer on UnsplashSomething my dad always tells me when I am sick is that "sleep is the best healer." I have to say, in my experience of getting sick, making sure that I am getting enough sleep has always helped in my process of feeling better. One thing to be careful of is to be sure that you aren't getting too much sleep because that could opposite effects.
3. Make an appointment with the health center or at a doctor's office.
Photo by Alexandr Podvalny on UnsplashIf you don't feel better in a couple of days, it is best to either make an appointment with the student health center or your doctor's office, or go to a local Urgent Care to see if you can be prescribed any antibiotics to help you get better. The important thing to remember about antibiotics is to also take probiotics to balance it out and to help you boost your immune system in the future.
4. Stock up on soup and crackers.
A lot of times, being sick also means having a weak stomach, so eating light foods like soup is always the best route to take until your stomach is strong enough for more solid foods. Also, try to eat toast or crackers with your soup to help settle your stomach.
5. If you are able to, go home.
Finally, staying in the dorms may be one of the factors in your lack of healing. If a parent can come and get you, or if there is any way for you to go home, you should take advantage of this. Don't worry about missing class, if you email your professors and/or have a doctor's note, they will most likely be understanding.
1.Shower
There is nothing more refreshing than a hot shower. Some would argue that morning showers help you have a happier day. Also, you look better and smell better. There is nothing grosser than greasy hair. And it keeps you healthier.
2. Sleep
After one all nighter during Freshman year, I realized that sacrificing my Zzzz’s was not worth it. In fact, I ended up forgetting what I had studied the night before, and it threw my whole sleep schedule off. That caused all of my classes to suffer.
3. Schedule
Showering and Sleeping are impossible when you don’t schedule. Your day probably has an element of spontaneity to it, however, it is still so helpful to have a basic timeline for your day. Some nights I’ll write each task I need to accomplish on a different sticky note. The joy at the end of the next day of crumpling each accomplished task is something you have to experience!
4. Eat Well
Nixing Ramen and nightly Domino's pizza orders will cause your personal health to skyrocket. Cutting down on caffeine will also help you sleep better. Water is also so important. With all the coffee that makes up a college student’s beverage diet, water gets overlooked. You’ll take one gulp of pure, ice cold drinking water and wonder where the heck this miracle liquid has been.
5. Exercise
Last semester, I was exercising sporadically or “when I had time.” Here’s the thing though, an episode of The Office is 20 minutes. I was watching plenty of that. At one point, I felt so freaking stir crazy and threw on my tennis shoes and walked through the freezing Ohio weather to the gym and exercised for like 40 minutes. I’m not trying to be a body builder or anything, but you just feel so much better after a few minutes on the stationary bike or eliptical.
6. Socialize
You need people. Friends are important. My friend and I both had crazy schedules last year, but we’d go to the grocery store together or to Wal Mart and catch up that way. It’s just good to sit and vent with someone every once in awhile. Midnight doughnut runs are also fun, or Mean Girlsmovie nights.
7. Be on Time
This one helps everyone’s productivity. Also, when you strive to be there on the dot, even if you’re a minute or two late, it helps you keep the rest of your life scheduled. Also, if you try to be on time, and plan accordingly, chances are you won’t be super stressed out trying to get somewhere 10 minutes away in 3 minutes.
8. Chillax
There is nothing wrong with kicking back and watching a few hours of a TV show. You need it. It’s important to take your mind off the real world for a little bit.
9. Journal/Pray/Reflect
It is vital to look inwardly and see how you’re doing, not just materially, but emotionally and spiritually. If you’re not emotionally doing well, something needs to change. It can be really hard to do well in other aspects of your life if you aren’t feeling well mentally. Journaling is the best free therapist out there, so is talking to a good friend.
10. Gain Perspective
Chances are, you know someone whose schedule is way more intense than yours. Or maybe you know someone who is going through a lot, but still manages to get a lot done. When I start to complain about my course load, I remember that my dad had four kids in medical school and residency. I also tr to remember that there are a lot of people out there who would love to "struggle" with too many classes. Doing something for other people can also really help make life more meaningful.
11. Do what works for you
By the time you’re 18, you know which study methods work for you, and how much sleep you really need every night. There’s going to be people all around you telling you how to live your life. And while there might be some really helpful pointers, only you can know what really works for you!You probably have some other ideas, but these seem to work pretty dang well!
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