To the guy who never cared,

I would like to start off by saying thank you. Thank you for being a bump in the road and lesson learned. Thank you for leading me toward who I am today and who I'm with today. Thank you for teaching me no matter how badly you want someone that you can't change yourself to fit what you assume they want. Thank you for teaching me that if someone seems nice and funny, it doesn't mean their heart is in the right place. Thank you for teaching me that a person's value is in not only how they treat you but also in how they treat other people. Thank you for teaching me my worth is NOT defined by if someone wants to be with me or not. Most of all, thank you for teaching me it is okay to care about people who probably aren't worth the time you spend caring about them

(Now I'm sure a few people who are reading this might be assuming it could be about them. All my exs are probably freaking out, but this isn't about any of you.)

When I met you I was 17 and fresh out of a relationship. I can actually remember the second I met you to this day, but honestly that's not important to the point here. I know you will probably never read this, and honestly that could be a good thing. If you do happen to somehow stumble across this, the only real thing I want to say to you is no I don't hate you. I do however want to ask you to treat other people better. I want to ask you to not just drop friends and to treat the girl you're with now better than what you've told me you treated other girls.

I know you probably talk about me and call me God knows what (if you even cared enough to remember my name honestly), but that's to be expected. That is one thing I learned from you. A man is only as good as he talks about his ex girlfriends and past friendships. I have learned if someone spends time talking to you about other girls to run not walk away from them.

I hope you've gotten yourself together a bit more now than you did when I knew you. I remember just being constantly concerned you were going to get yourself killed. Luckily that's not my job anymore.

At this point in the game I don't have a lot left to say to you. I wish you the best and I wish we could have continued a friendship. I know that's not how you really work, but it was a hope I had a long time ago. Good luck with your future relationships and friendships. I hope for their sake you've learned the value of people and not just yourself.

Kindest Regards,

The girl who cared way too much