The Guide to Being A Southern Gentleman
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The Guide to Being A Southern Gentleman

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The Guide to Being A Southern Gentleman
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In the last year or so there has been a resurgence of Southern customs and a love for Southern class. We see those Simply Southern shirts on campuses, classic prom dresses, and a growing love for that "Southern Drawl" or that "Country Twang". But there's always been the divide between the Southern Gentleman and the Redneck. And even a difference between the Country "Good Old Boy" and the Hick. This article is to show how you can be a true Southern Gentleman, and remember one of the perks of being a Southern Gentleman is getting a Southern Girl.


8. Respect your elders.

But don't be afraid to correct them when they're wrong. Respect their opinions and their feelings. And take their advice!

7. Remember your manners.


Your little old Granny would lose her mind if she found out about you not saying "Yes Sir" or "No Ma'm" or "Please" or "Thank You".

6. Dress accordingly.

A true Southern Gentleman ties his own tie, knows when to put down the UK ball cap, and knows when to buy a new pair of dress socks.

5. Hold your tongue.

Speak your mind, but remember to not let your language get as colorful as a Kentucky sunset.

4. Work hard.

Whether that's on the farm, in the office, or on the basketball court, work hard and your reward will be great.

3. Play hard.

Reward yourself for all the hard work, but play responsibly!

2. Respect your lady.

She's a true charm. A Southern Girl is one-of-a-kind. So take care of her, and treat her right. Hold the door, split the check after a while, and buy her flowers and make her feel like the Princess she truly is.

1. Take charge.

Take charge of your house, your own life, and everything you have a right to. You are the master of your own destiny. Remember: a good solid handshake and eye contact always goes a long way.

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