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Growing Up With A Dysfunctional Family

At least we put the "fun" in "dysfunctional."

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Growing Up With A Dysfunctional Family
Mallory Kimbrough

dys·func·tion·al (adjective)

  1. not operating normally or properly.

If you're anything like me, you have a dysfunctional family. Like the definition clearly states, my family does not operate normally. We have so many issues and tension at times that it's a miracle that we get anything done or even manage to talk to each other.

Both my maternal and paternal grandparents have been divorced. Many family members have been remarried at least three times. Sometimes our family get togethers can be a little bit of a nightmare with at least one person leaving in tears. They kind of set me on edge because I know when everyone is upset with each other.

But we love each other anyway.

My family can get through anything. No matter what life throws our way, we manage to make it out bruised and scraped but still working.

My family is hilarious. We have so many inside jokes from years and years of reunions and holidays and they always manage to come up at least 15 times in conversations. Overused? Maybe. Still laughed at? Definitely.

My family is literally a portable party. Wherever we go, we have a good time. Maybe it's because these locations usually serve alcohol, but you can't leave without feeling your new six pack forming.

We always have each other's back. No one tries to get in between us because they know we are some crazy people when crossed.


Through all of the frustration, anger, and chaos, there are no other people I'd want as my family. We make each other mad, but we also love each other unconditionally and wholeheartedly. Give your family members a call or a hug and tell them that you love them:)

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