I have lived in the same town since I was born and nothing has changed since then. The older I get the more I realize I appreciate the fact that nothing's changed. I am so excited that I am about to move to a bigger city but I will never forget the things I learned growing up in a small town.
1. Always be on your best behavior, word will get back to your family. Whether someone sees you horsing around in the grocery store or if someone sees you ding-dong-ditching at midnight, your mom and dad WILL find out.
2. Everybody looks out for everybody if something drastic happens everyone in the community is praying and willing to bring their best dish the next day. This is probably the best lesson I've learned.
3. Football Fridays aren't just for high school students, it's for the whole town. However, that means everyone will be complaining about that one play that could have changed the whole game.
4. In high school when you win, whether it's a sport or academic event, everyone gathers to welcome you home with signs and smiles.
5. The best places to hang out are the park or grocery store which is right down the street from your house, but only till 11 because there is a town curfew.
7. The old men at the Cafe are willing to give free advice about life, but mainly football. They "know more about the game" than any football coach there is.
8. We were taught manners by not only our parents but our coaches, which I mean sometimes is the same person, always answer yes sir, no ma'am, and definitely NEVER give attitude.
9. Everyone is family rather it be actual family or your hometown nearest and dearest, everyone is part of your family. You treat every single individual with respect and love and you are rewarded back with just as much as you give.
Living in a small town is some people's worse nightmare, but growing up in such a giving and loving community has given me the opportunity to learn some of the best lessons I will ever learn.