I recently became a member of Kappa Alpha Order here on campus and my time has been even more constrained. The fraternity life so far is amazing and I have nothing but love for my new brothers, but the temptation to slack on my schoolwork and quiet time is real. So far, the "frat" life is not like the movies portray it to be.

Its not a bunch of binge drinking and party drugs. I have witnessed a group of guys from all different backgrounds and lifestyles come together and form a bond over common ideals of gentility and a Christian faith. These guys go above and beyond for their brothers. From help with homework, to needing advice/guidance, to budgeting.

I know I can call any one of them and someone will be there at the drop of a hat. I was hesitant becoming apart of Greek Life because of my faith, and how I thought fraternities conducted themselves, but KA is like no other. We have bible studies and men who are leaders not only in the fraternity, but in the college and around our community that are helping mold me in to the man I want to be.

College is a time to branch out and try new things, and my message for anyone second guessing joining a fraternity or sorority is that they take the time to know the people and ideals of the greek organization. We, as a fraternity, get our ideals from Christianity and only wish to become leaders in our communities and form a lifelong brotherhood. Take a leap of faith and see where the wind blows for you!