Somethings just don't click until your 20s. Here are some things I am grateful for now that I am older.
1. Having parents that are human
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When I was young I used to think my parents were superhuman. However as many teenagers, one day I found out they were not. It took time for me to come to terms with this. Yet, as I am now in my 20s I am so grateful to know my parents are human just like me. With this peace of mind, I feel a stronger connection to them and admiration for them.
2. Friends who take me as I am
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I have always been someone very true to myself. However, I was not always applauded for this. Growing up in a relatively homogeneous town, it was difficult to find people who simply took me as I am. Now that I am in my 20s and have voyaged into the world, I have met a myriad of diverse people, who do not create a set of regulations I must meet. They love me for me. They have become my dearest friends.
3. Being a woman
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It hasn't been until my twenties that I have taken the time to study strong females in history, pop culture, and in my own social circle. And I respect men, but there are some pretty cool women out there. As I have learned about them, I feel inspired to strive for my dreams and goals just as they did.
4. All the education and experience I have gained
GiphyI have been going to school for the past 18 years. Basically, my entire life has been spent in school. It would be a lie if I didn't admit that I questioned at some point in my life why I was forced to do such a thing. However, now in my twenties, I value not only the academic knowledge I gained but more so I value the experiences I was exposed to as a youth. These experiences are what helped me develop into an adult.
5. Being culturally diverse
Having parents from different countries was an interesting experience growing up. People always wanted to know what I 'really was', like where I was 'from from'. And such limiting questions always annoyed me. Not to mention, that I had to face the daunting task of balancing both cultures in daily life. However, now that I am in my twenties, I am so grateful to have been raised with a holistic perspective on culture.
6. Having trials to face
GiphyIt's never easy to go through rough times. And like everyone, I have had my fair share. However, now that I am older I do not look on those times of difficulty with bitterness. Now I see them as lessons learned. Just like Kelly Clarkson says, if it doesn't kill you it makes you stronger.
7. A greater sense of purpose through religion
As a youth I was not religious at all. My concerns were focused elsewhere. But now that I have reached my twenties I am grateful to have religion in my life. It grants me a greater sense of purpose. This is not limited to what I am taught doctrinally, but also includes morals and beliefs I personally have chosen to follow. It is gratifying to know that I have foundation I build upon.
These are just a few of the things I have come to appreciate in my 20s. I know that my 30s, my 40s, and so on will bring more blessings I can appreciate.
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