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How To Have Good Relationships All Around

No one said relationships are easy.

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A relationship, as defined by the Merriam Webster Dictionary, is "the way in which two or more people, groups, countries, etc., talk to, behave toward, and deal with each other." Now, I'm no expert on relationships, but I like to think that in my 19 years of existence, I have learned a thing or two that I can share with you. These things range from friendships, to intimate relationships, to professional relationships. Take these tips with a grain of salt, and apply them to your life as you wish.

1. Find a few good friends, and never let them go. It is better to have a few good friends, than to have many crappy ones.

Yes, it feels good to have a gang of friends that support you, and back you up in all you do, but the intimate friendships you build with a few specific people are worth a lifetime.

2. In a friendship, don't be afraid to tell your friends how you feel.

It's better to talk about how things people do and say make you feel than to let them build up into a huge explosion. Talk it out in a safe and neutral environment. Approach with caution and a smile. It will all be okay, just let the feelings out.

3. Listening is key in a good friendship.

Listen, listen, listen. I can't stress this enough. Listen to each other. Actually listen.

4. Laugh at each other's mistakes.

Life is too short to fret about the small things. So what you tripped in front of your entire senior class at graduation... that's not going to matter in the end. You'll be making more money than all of them anyway.

5. With your boyfriend/girlfriend, always be supportive, no matter what.

If your significant other wants to dye their hair electric blue, go for it. Tell them it will bring out the color in their eyes, or the contour in their cheekbones... I don't know just make something up, but if you tell them you don't think it will look good, there will be hell to pay.

6. No matter what the circumstance, your girlfriend never looks fat in that black dress, and her butt never looks too big in her favorite jeans.

Just trust me on this one...

7. Ladies, have faith that your man won't cheat on you, you don't need to know the password to his phone.

Unless your significant other has given you reason to believe they are cheating, you don't need to go all Carrie Underwood on him/her.

8. Love unconditionally, without hesitation or doubt. Give them 110 percent.

Okay so in the beginning of "The Little Rascals," Alfalfa didn't really give 110 percent to sweet, sweet Darla. But he learned his lesson and by the end of the cutest movie ever, all was well. And they all lived happily ever after... I think?

9. In the professional world, always wear your nicest shoes to a job interview. Make sure they are shined, and look spotless.

This is just another one of those things you need to trust me on. The first thing most employers look at is your shoes. It sounds crazy, but like I said, trust me. Unless you are going to work in construction or on a farm, always follow this rule.

10. Greet your employer, boss, coworker, etc. with a smile each and every day.

You don't really want to be known as a sourpuss at your place of work. Unless it's your job to be rude and never smile... if you know of a job like that let me know, and, also, let me know if they are hiring. That would be such a good way to get out your anger and frustration.

11. Obviously, give any job you ever have 110 percent.

This should go without saying, but some people need a friendly reminder to put effort into their jobs...

That's my take on relationships, do with it what you will.

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