I want to start out by saying, you’re not alone. As hard as it may seem, everyone is struggling. Some people are struggling more than others or even we are all just struggling the same amount but we don’t realize it because our problems can overpower us. Whether you failed an exam, lost a friendship, lost a family member, are handicapped, or even have an illness that can alter the rest of your life. Maybe your biggest fear came true, or you made a mistake, or even you trusted the wrong person or your boyfriend and you broke up, whatever it is, it’s going to be okay.
It’s okay. It will all be okay as hard as it may seem. It’s okay to ugly cry. It’s okay to scream and yell, or even to isolate yourself from everyone because it all seems too much. It’s okay to be afraid, lost, scared and to feel numb to everything. I’ve been there, I may even be there now. I know sometimes it seems all too much physically, mentally, and emotionally, where you don’t think you can live another day, and everyone would be better off if you were just gone. I know because I’ve been there. But I also know this, as hard as it may seem today, tomorrow can be 100% better. I know it sounds cliche, but it will get better, you can’t cry forever, you can’t be lost forever and sometimes it just takes venting to someone who will actually listen and care.
I promise you, I will love you through whatever struggle you are dealing with, I won’t judge you, and I’ll be there to listen to you, to help you as much as I can. I don’t care if we have never spoken before, or haven’t spoken in ten years, or if we had a huge falling out or even if you have done me wrong, I don’t care. I want you to know, no matter what I’m here for you. You need someone to talk to I’m here. I promise you, you will never be alone.
No matter what, I will always be there for you, and I will always reply. I may not know the right thing to say, or might not have the right advice, but I will try my hardest to help you as much as possible. I say this because I’ve been there, I’ve been lost to where I didn’t think I could do it anymore, and I messaged people telling them how I felt and they didn’t respond. Nothing hurts more in that moment than telling someone you need someone because you’re struggling and they don’t respond, or worse yet they make a joke out of how you are feeling, tell you you are making it up, or even yell at you for trying to talk to them.
So whenever you feel sad, or even that this life is too much for you, I promise you I will be here for you and love you through it all despite of anything in the past between us, and I will help you as much as I can so you don’t feel alone, lost or scared anymore. Because sometimes all we need is someone to show us a little bit of the light to help us through the darkest times.
