As the years go by, it becomes clear that we will not be around forever. And in a perfect world, your loved ones would be with you for eternity. However, we live in an imperfect world where our loved ones age and unfortunately the day will come when we have to say goodbye. This past week was one of those days for me and the Schall family, where we had to say goodbye to a great man, Mark Eugene Singrey Sr.
Mark was a husband, a father, a grandfather and even a great-grandfather. He lived every day loving and inspiring those around him. Born on June 27, 1921, in Marshall County, Indiana, Mark lived through some tough times. Mark served in WWII as a combat soldier, and fought in the invasion of Normandy in the 83rd infantry division and in the process, earning the Purple Heart. Like the rest of his generation, Mark did not talk about the war and he showed no interest in ever doing so again and as his family, we respected his wishes.
Losing someone who you love so deeply, will change you in ways that are unforgettable. Mark never stopped loving his wife, Mary, better known as Gigi, long after she passed away. Mark spent the past 19 years missing and wishing to be reunited with his wonderful wife and on February 8th he was granted his wish. Knowing that Mark has moved on from this world and is now in the beautiful company of his wife, gives great comfort to his family still bound on earth.
As we laid him down to rest, he was honored by the American Legion with a beautiful service and he was graced with a 21-gun salute in honor of his service to the United States Army. His family was given the privilege of receiving an American Flag pin as he was placed alongside his wife, Mary.
For those who have ever lost someone so dear to them, take comfort that they are now in a better place with other loved ones who have passed before them. Like Mark, he was welcomed by wife, his parents, friends and the Lord almighty. Knowing that he is no longer in pain and missing his wife, we can live life like he would have wanted us to.
If you are in a situation where your loved one is slipping away, remember that you are not alone and those around you will help you get through this tough time.
We will miss you greatly Mark Singrey, Dad, Grandpa, Peepaw, and friend. R.I.P.