Your amazing smile. Your amazing personality. Your amazing style. Your amazing soul. All of you is what he will be missing. He will be missing the pure, happy girl you once were. He will be missing the thought of you, even when he pretends he doesn't.
You may be sitting in your room, staring out the window wondering why you weren't good enough. But guess what, you were.
You may hear a song on the radio and instantly cry at the thought of him.
You may see a car pass by and feel your heart beat a little faster, hoping it's him.
You may see a text pop up on your phone, wishing it was him.
But hey! He isn't worth it. You are my best friend and as much as I want you to be happy, if someone is making you even 5% sad, HE IS NOT THE ONE.
I know you like no one else. I know how you treat others. I know how you treat yourself. I know how your family is. I know what you like and don't like. And yes, he may have known all of that too, but he didn't stay.
He didn't love you like he should've. He didn't treat you the way a man should treat you.
I want you to get up every day and focus on you.
Focus on that girl with an amazing smile. Focus on that girl with an amazing personality. Focus on that girl with an amazing style. Focus on that girl with an amazing soul. Do not lose what is inside of you because of the man who left you. He is not for you.
Too often in our generation, many young girls are extremely depressed over their relationships ending. It is extremely ridiculous because many of these girls have done nothing wrong.
So to my best friend going through this breakup and to all the other girls, you are not alone.
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