You Never Know What’s Going On Behind Closed Doors So Be Kind | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Politics

You Never Know What’s Going On Behind Closed Doors So Be Kind

"Eventually doors close and there's absolutely no way to open them again, and we immediately begin to regret not even cracking the door open and having a conversation that may change one's life."

1118
You Never Know What’s Going On Behind Closed Doors So Be Kind
https://unsplash.com/photos/Ec7cHN7ofi0

Let's just begin with the fact that we all think that we know the extent of the people around us and who they are inside and out. But that is entirely false due to the fact that there are so many elements of our lives that we hide from one another. The fear that rises from the truth can truly separate you from those who care about you the most. Everyone has secrets and it's the elements of your life that you keep behind the door which remain there and grow overtime. It's scary to know that most people in your life have things they choose to keep to themselves and there are so many layers of a person that you may not even know in your own lifetime. But that's why it's important for us to open each other's doors and be present no matter how awkward or uncomfortable it may be.

Eventually doors close and there's absolutely no way to open them again, and we immediately begin to regret not even cracking the door open and having a conversation that may change one's life. My door is shut sometimes which is a flaw within myself that I need to begin to resolve due to the amount of incredible people who gladly have their doors open for me. When you love anyone in your life, it's important to remind them that you're there for them and you always will be, because you never know what could be happening behind their door. As you show your compassion and understanding for someone, they'll open up to you and it'll be as if this person as shown you a whole other aspect of their life. Have you ever asked someone if they were ok? That question within itself could open so many other doors that will lead you to a life changing conversation that could truly alter your views on someone's life.

Something I've noticed over my lifetime is that everyone is here to help one another which is actually amazing. No matter what position you hold in society or what job you obtain in your everyday life, you're doing something for someone and making their day a little bit brighter. Just by being here in this world you're making a difference and doing something that no one has done before. You might be walking on a different street, handing someone a coffee, or working in an office with tons of people, but you're doing something productive and making a change in someone's life. It may not be as apparent because seeing a change is a little difficult, but challenge yourself to think about new things you do everyday and how you could maybe knock on someone's door and see how they are feeling.

As life is constantly progressing so is one's mind so make sure that you're present in your own life as well as others on a daily basis. It just takes a few words, or starting a new conversation to impact one's life in ways that you couldn't even imagine. Please, be the change you want to see in the world and create a footprint everywhere you go for the rest of your life.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
girl holding phone
NYCPRGIRLS

Now that it seems “talking” is the new way to date, and will stay that way until another idiotic term is used to describe the people who can’t settle down and just date someone, I feel as if it’s time to go over the unwritten rules of “talking.”

Rule 1. Having feeling without feeling.

Keep Reading...Show less
The Stages of Having FOMO in College
iamthatgirl.com

Are you one of those people that gets super upset when you miss out on anything? Well, you may have FOMO, or fear of missing out. In college it’s not hard to experience FOMO every once in a while. You just love doing everything and anything, so hen you have to miss out on something it's the worst possible thing in your mind. Whether you’re sick, have to work, or have so much work to do you could cry – FOMO will hit you hard in college.

Keep Reading...Show less
Vivien Leigh
Revelist

I've lived a whole 21 years with an RBF (Resting Bitch Face), so naturally, I go through most of these struggles on a daily basis.

And before you ask, yes I'm fine. No, I'm not mad. This is just my face, so take it or leave it! To those of you who have been #blessed with an RBF, you'll probably relate to these more than you'd like to:

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

Iconic Duos: Timeless Legends

From Luke and Leia to Beyonce's twins...

774691
Luke and Leia from Star Wars, a iconic duo
Lucasfilm

“Name a more iconic duo... I'll wait." OK, well, if you insist. In no particular order, here's a list of 100 iconic duos that seem to be timeless.

SEE MORE: This Is The ICONIC Disney Sidekick You Are To Your BFF, According To Your Zodiac Sign

Keep Reading...Show less
Relationships

A Candid Letter to My Best Friends Ex

Because this is the real form of torture you deserve.

916
middle finger
Photo by engin akyurt on Unsplash

What's up Asshat,

I've composed a list of things that I wish upon you, and they're harsh and cruel. These things are things that I wouldn't wish upon my worst of enemies, not even that Starbuck's barista who always screws up my order, not even him. You fall into a whole other category of hate. You surpass Starbucks barista. Congratulations, I'm actually a pretty nice person, making you worthy of every single bit of torture I wish upon you. What are these things I wish upon you you might ask?

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments