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To The Girls Who Keep Breaking Their Own Heart

Realize your self-worth. Learn to love yourself again and gain the confidence back that you lost.

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You are worth so much more than what you are making yourself out to be. You cannot change someone if they do not want to be changed, so you have to stop trying. Doing this is only hurting yourself.

Every girl likes the challenge of changing that one boy you feel you cannot live without, but he is not going to change for you and that is the hardest thing to accept.

Remember that being the first priority is so important.

You deserve so much more than the mixed signals and getting a text once every four days. Being a second or third priority is not an option for you anymore. If someone wants to make you a priority they will.

You are way too good to be sad over someone who probably is not even sad they lost you.

You have to learn to love and appreciate yourself before someone else can appreciate these things too. Until that point, do not worry about being without someone, you will be just fine on your own.

It is not your fault that he does not have the same feelings as you do.

You show all of your feelings with every part of your body, but even that cannot make a person feel the same way.

Being able to open up the way you do is a quality that many people strive for, so own it.

You are amazing and kind.

You are smart and you are going to do big things someday.

You are going to look back and understand why some things just did not work out.

Someday someone will treat you as their top priority and cherish their time with you, and at that point, you will realize that all of the pain you went through, led you to something amazing. But today, put yourself first and stop breaking your own heart.

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