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To The Girl Who's Waiting For The Guy

You're beautiful and you are strong.

Gianna Bottone

Sep 13, 2016

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To The Girl Who is Waiting for The Guy,

At one point in our lives we have all been there, haven't we? Whether it's your elementary school crush, your high school sweetheart, or the man of your dreams, I'm sure we have all waited at some point.

Here's what I want you to know though. It's okay that you're waiting to some extent. I had plenty of people tell me that it was pathetic and creepy to be waiting for a guy to come around and realize how much of a catch you are, and trust me I already know you are, but you're not pathetic and you're not creepy.

You're infatuated, or in love, and that's okay. But, here is what you also need to know, don't wait around for him forever. If after some amount of time, he can't see how great you are, or is playing with you and your emotions, don't wait anymore! I know that's difficult to hear sometimes, that you shouldn't wait around for a guy you like as much as you do, but trust me it will help you in the long run.

It will save you months, if not years of aggravation, many tears, and it will help you to move on. Make sure he knows how you feel though. You can't expect a guy to come around without knowing that. Sometimes that is all it takes, just a real moment of honesty. But, again if that doesn't work, there are plenty of fish in the sea, and I promise you with everything I have that you will find someone else.

You are beautiful and strong and don't let a man dictate your life no matter what age you are. You should know what you're worth, so don't miss out on great opportunities just because of one guy. You can find happiness anywhere! Do what is best for you, and don't let anyone try to bring you down.

Love,

The Girl Who's Been There

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