I remember the days before I met the person who I can say is the love of my life, I spent crying on my bed, being sad and wondering why I was never a priority to the guy who came before him.
I remember being with my friends or family and still feeling alone. I remember feeling less of myself because of one guy's lack of attention. I remember that overwhelming, all-consuming sadness and I sure as hell will never put myself in that position again.
While it may have felt awful at the moment, I learned something about life: if someone's actions or words ever make you feel less than who you are, leave. You are never obligated to stay with someone or live a life with someone who makes you question yourself.
It was not until I met my boyfriend and he helped me realize everything beautiful inside myself. I did not change who I was, but instead, he recognized everything I could not even see in myself and brought it up to the surface.
Since the day I met him, he has made me feel the way every girl should feel in the arms of someone she loves.
To him, I am not a 'maybe,' I am not disposable or just a rental for the time being. I never felt the need to change who I was to make him love me more, I stayed true to myself, and it was everything he was searching for
I have never felt shaky or questioned our relationship because he has always valued me and made me his number one priority. He is conscious of the words he speaks to me and has never hurt me but only lifted me higher rather than making me feel less than myself.
I have never been hurt by his words because he's always lifting me higher rather than making me feel less than myself.
Ladies, your guy is out there. This guy for you exists and is out there just waiting to cross paths with you. Wherever you are at in your life, right at this moment, know you are the girl of someone's dreams.
I'm sure it seems far from reach, or maybe you thought you found that perfect match but now you are left heartbroken. But when negative thoughts, like why you 'were not good enough,' come creeping in remember this:
You have everything inside you that someone has been desperately seeking.
Someone is out there that will find everything about you beautiful.
Your flaws will be flaws but a reason to love you more.
You have a kind heart someone has been searching for.
You have the shade of eyes someone finds beautiful.
You have the laugh someone will love to hear.
You have the selflessness that someone will not take for granted.
You have the kindness someone will appreciate.
You have the ambition someone will support.
You have the beauty that will captivate someone.
You have the intelligence someone will admire.
You have the hand that will perfectly fit into theirs.
This person is out there. Whatever the reason, fate just has just not brought you two together yet.
I assure you; whoever this guy is, will keep you and they will find you irreplaceable.
