To The Girl Who Doesn't Think She's Pretty Enough
Start writing a post
Health and Wellness

To The Girl Who Doesn't Think She's Pretty Enough

Life isn't all about breaking 300 likes on Instagram.

272
To The Girl Who Doesn't Think She's Pretty Enough
Pinterest

To any girl who is reading this who doesn't think they're pretty enough,

I want to tell you that you are beautiful. I want to tell you that that thing you are so ashamed of is the single thing that makes you, YOU. Don't think about that "ideal" body type because let's face it, it's impossible to get that. Don't change who you are just to get a few extra likes on Instagram or get that boy to ask you out. Newsflash: life isn't all about breaking 300 likes on Instagram. And if a boy only asks you out just because you suddenly "got hot," then he's not the boy for you. Sorry.

I'm not saying that you shouldn't strive to be healthy. Take care of your body, make sure you're putting the right nutrients into your body. Go to the gym to stay fit. Don't go to the gym to "get skinny." I thought for a long time that if I ever got skinny, I would finally get that boy in my history class to notice me. But you know what? Sure, looks can get you far, but it's what inside that counts. It's how you apply and carry yourself. Whatever your insecurities may be, keep your head held high.

Don't ever think that you're not pretty enough. What does being pretty entail anyway? According to Google, pretty means "attractive in a delicate way without being truly beautiful or handsome." The example is "a pretty little girl with an engaging grin." There is no skinny ideal body type in there. To be pretty, just be you and smile. That's when you look the most attractive.

Sure, you can eat only lettuce and go to the gym every day. What's that going to get you? Instead of dreaming of a "hot summer body," focus on other things. Read a book. Write a novel. Catch up on homework.

You are pretty enough. Don't ever let those blonde skinny girls on Instagram with 1,000 likes let you think otherwise. Don't look at them and then look at your own body and think negative thoughts. You wanna know a secret? They probably have something on their bodies that they don't like about themselves. If we all just embrace the thing that we hate most about ourselves, then we wouldn't have any insecurities.

Next time you're scrolling through Instagram or at the gym slaving away on the treadmill, don't automatically hate your body. Instead, look yourself in the mirror and point out all the great things about your body. Because you are enough. You are pretty enough. You are beautiful.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
the beatles
Wikipedia Commons

For as long as I can remember, I have been listening to The Beatles. Every year, my mom would appropriately blast “Birthday” on anyone’s birthday. I knew all of the words to “Back In The U.S.S.R” by the time I was 5 (Even though I had no idea what or where the U.S.S.R was). I grew up with John, Paul, George, and Ringo instead Justin, JC, Joey, Chris and Lance (I had to google N*SYNC to remember their names). The highlight of my short life was Paul McCartney in concert twice. I’m not someone to “fangirl” but those days I fangirled hard. The music of The Beatles has gotten me through everything. Their songs have brought me more joy, peace, and comfort. I can listen to them in any situation and find what I need. Here are the best lyrics from The Beatles for every and any occasion.

Keep Reading...Show less
Being Invisible The Best Super Power

The best superpower ever? Being invisible of course. Imagine just being able to go from seen to unseen on a dime. Who wouldn't want to have the opportunity to be invisible? Superman and Batman have nothing on being invisible with their superhero abilities. Here are some things that you could do while being invisible, because being invisible can benefit your social life too.

Keep Reading...Show less
Featured

19 Lessons I'll Never Forget from Growing Up In a Small Town

There have been many lessons learned.

71275
houses under green sky
Photo by Alev Takil on Unsplash

Small towns certainly have their pros and cons. Many people who grow up in small towns find themselves counting the days until they get to escape their roots and plant new ones in bigger, "better" places. And that's fine. I'd be lying if I said I hadn't thought those same thoughts before too. We all have, but they say it's important to remember where you came from. When I think about where I come from, I can't help having an overwhelming feeling of gratitude for my roots. Being from a small town has taught me so many important lessons that I will carry with me for the rest of my life.

Keep Reading...Show less
​a woman sitting at a table having a coffee
nappy.co

I can't say "thank you" enough to express how grateful I am for you coming into my life. You have made such a huge impact on my life. I would not be the person I am today without you and I know that you will keep inspiring me to become an even better version of myself.

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

Waitlisted for a College Class? Here's What to Do!

Dealing with the inevitable realities of college life.

133398
college students waiting in a long line in the hallway
StableDiffusion

Course registration at college can be a big hassle and is almost never talked about. Classes you want to take fill up before you get a chance to register. You might change your mind about a class you want to take and must struggle to find another class to fit in the same time period. You also have to make sure no classes clash by time. Like I said, it's a big hassle.

This semester, I was waitlisted for two classes. Most people in this situation, especially first years, freak out because they don't know what to do. Here is what you should do when this happens.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments