To the girl who doesn’t know her self-worth,
You are awesome and you deserve a lot better than that guy you have settled for in the past. You tend to have a history of settling down for the first person that is accessible. Maybe that boy is sweet and loving and you do not notice that they are not the person for you, but everyone else sees it. They see how you still are never happy. They see all the little things that happen that you lowkey complain about. They see how he controls you, but you don’t see it.
You don’t deserve that. You deserve someone who would drop everything for you. You deserve someone who makes you love every second of the day, and never makes you question how he feels. You deserve someone who is so unbelievably happy to be with you. You deserve someone who treats you like a princess. You deserve happiness.
So just stop and take some time for yourself. Focus on you. Do things that make you so very happy. Go for a walk in the park, take some time to breath in the fresh air, take up journaling! Focus on how you feel and make sure you are feeling great. Take time to to discover yourself. That might sound cheesy, but until you discover who you are and are comfortable with yourself, you will never be happy with someone else.
I write this letter to you because I know what you're going through. I understand how hard it is to be comfortable with yourself when society is constantly telling you you won't fit in. I understand that sometimes you look in the mirror and you don't like what you see. I understand that it is a lot easier to preach about self confidence than to actually have it. But I also write this letter because I care and I know that you deserve better. You deserve to wake up happy every day of your life. You deserve to be so excited to live your life. You deserve a good job, a good guy, and a good life.
The best part is that you can get all of these things! You just have to believe it yourself. You need to stop rushing through life and stop for a minute and breathe. Look around at your life and think about what should change. Start journaling. You will discover more about yourself than you think just by writing about your day and your feelings. You can have a great life, a great guy, and feel great about yourself because you are fabulous. You are wonderful, loved, and cared about. It's easier said than done, but believe it.
