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Getting Rejected By My Dream School Was The Best Thing To Ever Happen To Me

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Getting Rejected By My Dream School Was The Best Thing To Ever Happen To Me

Princeton University was the Disney World of my childhood. Tall stone buildings draped in ivy, massive marble beasts guarding courtyards; Princeton’s campus is every little girl’s fairytale. However, the Ivy League fairytale of my childhood quickly turned into a daunting reality as I approached my senior year of high school.

I had visited my uncle during his time as a student at Princeton and continued to make the trip every summer for cross-country camp. Spending my weekends touring big state schools and selective liberal arts colleges proved only to strengthen my love for Princeton; I was determined to be a tiger. Only one school I visited that came close to rivaling Princeton was the University of North Carolina.

A campus straight from Google images and students with incredible school spirit immediately caught my eye (not to mention Carolina blue clothes, am I right?). The town of Chapel Hill has a love and pride for UNC unparalleled among every college I visited. Carolina Blue is truly a culture. After my visit, I added UNC to my seemingly endless list of applications and awaited the results.

Following all of my applications, I thought long and hard about what my realistic first choice college was. Princeton was the school of my dreams but with a 7 percent acceptance rate, so I knew I had to prepare myself for an alternative. UNC was a clear second choice, or as I put it, my “slightly more realistic first choice.” UNC was perfect -- beautiful, fun, great sports teams, a good distance from home, and the one problem: 82 percent in-state students. Either way, these two beautiful schools were a long shot.

Princeton was the first school I heard back from. Hunched over my cellphone at the end of track practice I impatiently refreshed my web browser, and there it was, “We regret to inform you”. Short, sweet, and to the point: rejection. Following this letter was a less-than-enthusiastic acceptance from Clemson and a deferral or two. Then came January and the letter I had been waiting for -- UNC.

Getting accepted early action to UNC was not only a surprise but truly a blessing. It baffles my mind that I ever classified Chapel Hill as anything but a first choice school. Between the lively town, Division I sports teams (go Heels!), and a student body that is nothing short of a family, UNC is a place I am so proud to call home.

If there is anything I would tell college applicants it’s that sometimes your dream school doesn’t work out, and if you’re lucky that will be a blessing. Sometimes the school you counted out as a second, or even third, choice ends up being a perfect match. While I’m sure I would’ve loved Princeton had I been accepted, I can’t imagine myself anywhere other than Carolina. I wasn’t a Tar Heel born or a Tar Heel bred, but when I die, I’ll be a Tar Heel dead.

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